Stage 3 is no fun. Perseverance is the only way to “fix” it. The Mantra “load it like you hate it” help and let’s you get more awesome soaps.I'm pretty much stuck at the Stage 3, and it's been a while tbh. But, I won't give up on it, because I really like the knot itself, and the way that the handle fits into my hand.
Thank you for your insight!