Oh, Schick! That's gonna leave a mark.
Linda Kozlowski, she went to my high school, a couple classes ahead of me
My chain remains unjerked.
Thank you.
So does anyone know? What the real definition of "toxic male" is? I mean, there was that time I shaved with Tabac and followed it up with the Veg but I don't think that's it.
Tabac and the Veg are just a different way of being toxic.
If serious, the video shows boys bullying another and men being lecherous creeps towards women.
Those are toxic behaviors. Long story very short, don't bully people and don't act towards women in a way that makes them want to run away from you. Read your audience. If people around you look uncomfortable when they see your behavior, you're being toxic. When dealing with women, if you don't know where the line is between being friendly and being a creep, then err on the side of caution, and interact less with her.
I have read any number of posts here and elsewhere from men complaining about the video. I haven't read a convincing argument why it should be considered offensive. Mind your behavior and the world becomes an easier place for everyone to live in.
It's overall just sad to me that we live in a time where men need to be taught how to be gentlemen by a Gillette ad.
Think on that for a minute.
Read your audience. If people around you look uncomfortable when they see your behavior, you're being toxic.
So does that mean Gillette are being toxic?
I feel uncomfortable when people start imposing on me, telling me how I should think, politically, socially, or any other way. Can I call them toxic too?
Societies are not all of one thinking, and I don't think they should be. Labelling anyone who conducts themselves in a way that makes us uncomfortable as toxic, would probably see everybody being labelled as toxic by someone else. The deep irony here is that this moral domineering is at risk of becoming just as reprehensible as the other forms of domineering they are calling out. I am in no way justifying what many of us would clearly see as reprehensible or predatory behaviour, but I am saying there are many in this world who've supposedly taken the moral high ground, who are exercising a new form of stereotyping, discrimination, bullying, and subjugation. It's the same pack mentality that drives sexism, racism, and all the other "we are superior to them" issues, but with alternate differences and new defined boundaries.
I don’t think their talking to me personally. I believe I’m better than what type person they are showing. They are not saying all men are clods.Do some of us see ourselves in this commercial? Why are we so sensitive, if we don’t see ourselves acting in this way . The fact is many men are as shown. I just don’t see anything wrong in the message.I think like many men my sensitivity to messages like this be it a Gillette ad or a sitcom is its disingenuous on so many levels.
Masculinity can be as healthy or as toxic as femininity but that's not what they are trying to convey. Instead the narrative is that by default men are misogynist, knuckle dragging, mouth breathing dullards who revel in bro culture and we can't decide if we want to rape every woman we come across or we need her superior intellect to save us from eating dirt.
I'm going to have trouble feeling any sympathy for anyone who thinks that being told "don't be a jackass to people" is an imposition. This isn't that complicated. Either people act like those in the video, in which case they're the target of that video; or they don't, in which case there is no need for them to feel put upon because this isn't about them, so what's the point of getting all riled up other than to just be contrary? The interpretation of your comment is that if someone wants to be a jackass we should all just shut up and let him be a jackass, to which I might ask: Why, exactly, are we supposed to tolerate people being jackasses around us?
No they're not indicting all men, but Gillette has clearly struck a nerve and I think its worth asking why that nerve was raw to begin with. Not all the men who've objected to message and posted comments on youtube, news sites, here, etc. are guilty of the bad behavior shown in the video. I'd like to believe that the majority of those men are decent, respectful by nature but don't feel like being lectured to by a billion dollar company.I don’t think their talking to me personally. I believe I’m better than what type person they are showing. They are not saying all men are clods.Do some of us see ourselves in this commercial? Why are we so sensitive, if we don’t see ourselves acting in this way . The fact is many men are as shown. I just don’t see anything wrong in the message.
Spot onNo they're not indicting all men, but Gillette has clearly struck a nerve and I think its worth asking why that nerve was raw to begin with. Not all the men who've objected to message and posted comments on youtube, news sites, here, etc. are guilty of the bad behavior shown in the video. I'd like to believe that the majority of those men are decent, respectful by nature but don't feel like being lectured to by a billion dollar company.
I think like many men my sensitivity to messages like this be it a Gillette ad or a sitcom is its disingenuous on so many levels.
Masculinity can be as healthy or as toxic as femininity but that's not what they are trying to convey. Instead the narrative is that by default men are misogynist, knuckle dragging, mouth breathing dullards who revel in bro culture and we can't decide if we want to rape every woman we come across or we need her superior intellect to save us from eating dirt.