Believe it or not, among the various schools of Pick-Up Artistry, one of the first techniques they teach is "Crash and Burn" ... where the guru will advise his students to go out in the field and use the most horrible pick-up lines they can think of.
The whole object of this lesson is to overcome "Approach Anxiety," The fear of breaking the ice and actually speaking to a woman. The outcome of this exercise is that the student fully expects to be rejected, laughed at, and scorned.
It makes it much easier to speak to women the next time around (using better Approach techniques) once you get slapped in the face the first night.
Obviously, you want to use this "Crash and Burn" technique far away from your home turf. Take a ride to a city 100 miles away, where there is no chance you'll run into anyone that will know you.
Most important, have fun with it. Getting rejected isn't the end of the world, and if it helps to break down the gut-wrenching fear of meeting new people, then its well worth it.
The whole object of this lesson is to overcome "Approach Anxiety," The fear of breaking the ice and actually speaking to a woman. The outcome of this exercise is that the student fully expects to be rejected, laughed at, and scorned.
It makes it much easier to speak to women the next time around (using better Approach techniques) once you get slapped in the face the first night.
Obviously, you want to use this "Crash and Burn" technique far away from your home turf. Take a ride to a city 100 miles away, where there is no chance you'll run into anyone that will know you.
Most important, have fun with it. Getting rejected isn't the end of the world, and if it helps to break down the gut-wrenching fear of meeting new people, then its well worth it.
