I'm finding that ever so often, I need to carry very deep and discreet. All other times, I carry a 4in 1911 or a .357 snubby. I keep reading and now I think that I have analysis paralysis. I know that pocket carry is not ideal, but it's necessity is a reality sometimes. I'm also getting a lot of conflicting information between .380 and 9mm. I know that 9mm will probably mean a gun with more recoil (more unpleasant to shoot). I can carry the snubby in a pocket, but it is kinda heavy. I need some information and advice from the guys who have experience with such. This is not a gun that will be carried IWB or AIWB (I'm way to fat for that nonsense). This would be strictly a gun to be carried in a pocket in a pocket holster. I'm not a new shooter and I believe in training with any firearm that I intend to carry.