You seem like you are "ready" to me. One can over-think these things.
Here's to love!
Here's to love!
Get married.
are you waiting to see if the two of you will be 100% compatible first?
You aren't.
Nobody is.
Marriage is a commitment to working through and accepting all of each others differences and commonalities.Living together is an admittance on both sides that they want to leave the door a bit ajar to bail when things get tough. Life happens. Some times are awesome, some times are the pits. You say you've already weathered a couple of storms, that's great, that's what it takes.
Thats my two cents, since you asked...
I don't have the stats on hand and don't want to make something up, but that's 50% of marriages ending in divorce, not 50% of those people who get married wind up getting divorced. The problem is that you have some people making repeat appearances in divorce court. My ex-wife, for example, is probably hunting for future ex-husband #5 about now, if she hasn't already passed that mark.The divorce rate is near 50% in this country (so much for the sanctity of marriage).
The divorce rate is near 50% in this country (so much for the sanctity of marriage)
I don't know, but the cost is a lot cheaper.So, what's the split up rate for folks simply living together?
Reason 681 To buy a Ukulele ... Girls like Ukulele players.
I have to agree with many of the previous comments. I think living with someone before marrying has many benefits. I sometimes wonder how people go from dating to married and have never lived together. I think you learn more about a person living with them for a couple months than dating a couple of years. Start packing!
I don't have the stats on hand and don't want to make something up, but that's 50% of marriages ending in divorce, not 50% of those people who get married wind up getting divorced. The problem is that you have some people making repeat appearances in divorce court. My ex-wife, for example, is probably hunting for future ex-husband #5 about now, if she hasn't already passed that mark.
perhaps a little more thought involved than "I'll come over for a couple weeks and see how it goes."[/QUOTE said:Ooooh it's not like that, especially if you have both of your names on a lease that neither of you can afford alone.
9. Always show your love (flowers, cards, presents and surprises [like making a date with her], etc..), to keep the 'flame burning' (the Mrs. and my 30th anniversary is tomorrow).
Ooooh it's not like that, especially if you have both of your names on a lease that neither of you can afford alone.
Ooooh it's not like that, especially if you have both of your names on a lease that neither of you can afford alone.
Consider it a free trial periodSo, you're not just living together, you're leasing the relationship, so to speak.....?
Not quite up to a purchase (marriage), but available for a trade in/upgrade after the initial contract expires. Sort of like my iPhone deal with AT&T.
Sorry, I'm being facetious just for the sake of debate....
So, you're not just living together, you're leasing the relationship, so to speak.....?
Not quite up to a purchase (marriage), but available for a trade in/upgrade after the initial contract expires. Sort of like my iPhone deal with AT&T.
Sorry, I'm being facetious just for the sake of debate....