Thanks for all the input. I might try tru-oil for the time being. I've read CA should be used after sealing the pores, otherwise I'd be all for it. Is there a reason polyurethane or spar urethane seems to be uncommon? I saw it in one of these posts where someone discussed using a spray can and people seemed to think it would work. I'm slowly learning that I don't know anything about woodworking.
Polyurethane would work and would be a durable finish around water.
The problem with Urethanes, poly, varnish etc. is that each coat does not melt into the previous layer. They bind to each other but they are separate layers.
Spar varnish is an exterior grade varnish meant to hold up a bit better against U.V degradation.. It is also somewhat softer then Polyurethanes.
Lacquer and C.A (I believe) melts into the previous layer and become one thick layer. This is beneficial when sanding and buffing as you won't go through one of the layers and create a "witness line" of the layers. I know Lacquer does and C.A. creates heat when applied so I think it does too.
Lacquer, Varnish and polyurethanes add a yellow tinge to their substrate - it is a warm yellow that is often desirable.
Water based finishes do not offer the warm yellowing and look plasticky when applied without color first.
Hope this helps.
Forgot to add, Shellac. It is pretty soft as finishes go but can add the yellow hue you would be looking for. It melts to the previous layer as well but is not a very durable finish.