The blade gap isn´t the only parameter for "aggressiveness".
While changing the geometry to increase the blade gap, it could very possibly be that the .95 has a smaller blade exposure.
Just like the Carbon Cx plates are designed...
I guess that your skin is more sensitive to blade exposure than blade gap.
(it could be the reason, but I´m not 100% sure that the .95 plate has a smaller blade exposure)
That's kind of what I'm thinking as well. The larger gap changes the blade exposure (or even the shaving angle) to something I get along with better. Whatever it is, I'm happy with the 95 and the experience has shown me that a larger blade gap does not necessarily mean more aggression. As a matter of fact, I find the Windor CR1 slightly more aggressive than the 95 Lupo and it only has a .58 blade gap ( or something close to that). Provides great shaves though.