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Top 10 Reasons You Should Quit Facebook

I'm on Facebook. Probably you are, too.

But every time I see an article like this, and there are A LOT of articles like this, I have second thoughts about maintaining my account. And according to this article, even if you delete your account, Facebook STILL keeps (and uses) your personal, private data, and so do all the apps you have subscribed to.

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By Dan Yoder
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Top Ten Reasons You Should Quit Facebook

Facebook privacy policies keep going down the drain. That's enough reason for many to abandon it. Here you will find nine more:
After some reflection, I've decided to delete my account on Facebook. I'd like to encourage you to do the same. This is part altruism and part selfish. The altruism part is that I think Facebook, as a company, is unethical. The selfish part is that I'd like my own social network to migrate away from Facebook so that I'm not missing anything. In any event, here's my "Top Ten" reasons for why you should join me and many others and delete your account.


10. Facebook's Terms Of Service are completely one-sided

Let's start with the basics. Facebook's Terms Of Service state that not only do they own your data (section 2.1), but if you don't keep it up to date and accurate (section 4.6), they can terminate your account (section 14). You could argue that the terms are just protecting Facebook's interests, and are not in practice enforced, but in the context of their other activities, this defense is pretty weak. As you'll see, there's no reason to give them the benefit of the doubt. Essentially, they see their customers as unpaid employees for crowd-sourcing ad-targeting data.



9. Facebook's CEO has a documented history of unethical behavior

From the very beginning of Facebook's existence, there are questions about Zuckerberg's ethics. According to BusinessInsider.com, he used Facebook user data to guess email passwords and read personal email in order to discredit his rivals. These allegations, albeit unproven and somewhat dated, nonetheless raise troubling questions about the ethics of the CEO of the world's largest social network. They're particularly compelling given that Facebook chose to fork over $65M to settle a related lawsuit alleging that Zuckerberg had actually stolen the idea for Facebook.



8. Facebook has flat out declared war on privacy

Founder and CEO of Facebook, in defense of Facebook's privacy changes last January: "People have really gotten comfortable not only sharing more information and different kinds, but more openly and with more people. That social norm is just something that has evolved over time." More recently, in introducing the Open Graph API: "... the default is now social." Essentially, this means Facebook not only wants to know everything about you, and own that data, but to make it available to everybody. Which would not, by itself, necessarily be unethical, except that ...



7. Facebook is pulling a classic bait-and-switch

At the same time that they're telling developers how to access your data with new APIs, they are relatively quiet about explaining the implications of that to members. What this amounts to is a bait-and-switch. Facebook gets you to share information that you might not otherwise share, and then they make it publicly available. Since they are in the business of monetizing information about you for advertising purposes, this amounts to tricking their users into giving advertisers information about themselves. This is why Facebook is so much worse than Twitter in this regard: Twitter has made only the simplest (and thus, more credible) privacy claims and their customers know up front that all their tweets are public. It's also why the FTC is getting involved, and people are suing them (and winning).
Check out this excellent timeline from the *** documenting the changes to Facebook's privacy policy.



6. Facebook is a bully

When Pete Warden demonstrated just how this bait-and-switch works (by crawling all the data that Facebook's privacy settings changes had inadvertently made public) they sued him. Keep in mind, this happened just before they announced the Open Graph API and stated that the "default is now social." So why sue an independent software developer and fledgling entrepreneur for making data publicly available when you're actually already planning to do that yourself? Their real agenda is pretty clear: they don't want their membership to know how much data is really available. It's one thing to talk to developers about how great all this sharing is going to be; quite another to actually see what that means in the form of files anyone can download and load into MatLab.



5. Even your private data is shared with applications

At this point, all your data is shared with applications that you install. Which means now you're not only trusting Facebook, but the application developers, too, many of whom are too small to worry much about keeping your data secure. And some of whom might be even more ethically challenged than Facebook. In practice, what this means is that all your data - all of it - must be effectively considered public, unless you simply never use any Facebook applications at all. Coupled with the OpenGraph API, you are no longer trusting Facebook, but the Facebook ecosystem.



4. Facebook is not technically competent enough to be trusted

Even if we weren't talking about ethical issues here, I can't trust Facebook's technical competence to make sure my data isn't hijacked. For example, their recent introduction of their "Like" button makes it rather easy for spammers to gain access to my feed and spam my social network. Or how about this gem for harvesting profile data? These are just the latest of a series of Keystone Kops mistakes, such as accidentally making users' profiles completely public, or the cross-site scripting hole that took them over two weeks to fix. They either don't care too much about your privacy or don't really have very good engineers, or perhaps both.



3. Facebook makes it incredibly difficult to truly delete your account

It's one thing to make data public or even mislead users about doing so; but where I really draw the line is that, once you decide you've had enough, it's pretty tricky to really delete your account. They make no promises about deleting your data and every application you've used may keep it as well. On top of that, account deletion is incredibly (and intentionally) confusing. When you go to your account settings, you're given an option to deactivate your account, which turns out not to be the same thing as deleting it. Deactivating means you can still be tagged in photos and be spammed by Facebook (you actually have to opt out of getting emails as part of the deactivation, an incredibly easy detail to overlook, since you think you're deleting your account). Finally, the moment you log back in, you're back like nothing ever happened! In fact, it's really not much different from not logging in for awhile. To actually delete your account, you have to find a link buried in the on-line help (by "buried" I mean it takes five clicks to get there). Or you can just click here. Basically, Facebook is trying to trick their users into allowing them to keep their data even after they've "deleted" their account.



2. Facebook doesn't (really) support the Open Web

The so-called Open Graph API is named so as to disguise its fundamentally closed nature. It's bad enough that the idea here is that we all pitch in and make it easier than ever to help Facebook collect more data about you. It's bad enough that most consumers will have no idea that this data is basically public. It's bad enough that they claim to own this data and are aiming to be the one source for accessing it. But then they are disingenuous enough to call it "open," when, in fact, it is completely proprietary to Facebook. You can't use this feature unless you're on Facebook. A truly open implementation would work with whichever social network we prefer, and it would look something like OpenLike. Similarly, they implement just enough of OpenID to claim they support it, while aggressively promoting a proprietary alternative, Facebook Connect.



1. The Facebook application itself sucks

Between the farms and the mafia wars and the "top news" (which always guesses wrong - is that configurable somehow?) and the myriad privacy settings and the annoying ads (with all that data about me, the best they can apparently do is promote dating sites, because, uh, I'm single) and the thousands upon thousands of crappy applications, Facebook is almost completely useless to me at this point. Yes, I could probably customize it better, but the navigation is ridiculous, so I don't bother. (And, yet, somehow, I can't even change colors or apply themes or do anything to make my page look personalized.) Let's not even get into how slowly your feed page loads. Basically, at this point, Facebook is more annoying than anything else.
Facebook is clearly determined to add every feature of every competing social network in an attempt to take over the Web (this is a never-ending quest that goes back to AOL and those damn CDs that were practically falling out of the sky). While Twitter isn't the most usable thing in the world, at least they've tried to stay focused and aren't trying to be everything to everyone.
I often hear people talking about Facebook as though they were some sort of monopoly or public trust. Well, they aren't. They owe us nothing. They can do whatever they want, within the bounds of the laws. (And keep in mind, even those criteria are pretty murky when it comes to social networking.) But that doesn't mean we have to actually put up with them. Furthermore, their long-term success is by no means guaranteed - have we all forgotten MySpace? Oh, right, we have. Regardless of the hype, the fact remains that Sergei Brin or Bill Gates or Warren Buffett could personally acquire a majority stake in Facebook without even straining their bank account. And Facebook's revenue remains more or less a rounding error for more established tech companies.
Click to viewWhile social networking is a fun new application category enjoying remarkable growth, Facebook isn't the only game in town. I don't like their application nor how they do business and so I've made my choice to use other providers. And so can you.



Dan Yoder is a serial entrepreneur and the VP of Engineering at Border Stylo, a Hollywood-based social media startup. He can be reached on Twitter as @dyoder.
Disclosure by Dan Yoder: I'm the VP of Engineering for a Hollywood-based social media startup, BorderStylo. The opinions expressed here are purely my own and are not in any way endorsed by my employer. While I do not see our applications as directly competitive to Facebook, nor have I presented them as such, it would be disingenuous not to mention this.
Thanks to David Harthcock for creating the great "Ban Facebook" graphic.
 
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One simple solution is not having an account.

I'm not so sure I buy all the talk about Facebook being unethical. It's all in the fine print. Just about every monolith is described as unethical at some point. Bill Gates and Steve Jobs in particular. It's almost cliche to label people with really good ideas unethical. They wield so much power. Intellectual property rights are tricky. That Zuckerberg paid $65 million to a former partner doesn't necessarily make him guilty. When you've got billions you can afford to pay pennies to get rid of a problem that's distracting you from doing what you enjoy. Sure, he could have resisted on pure principal, but most business savvy guys learn to be pragmatic at a point.

I'm not a big Facebook fan on any level. I just keep an account to keep in touch with folks. Most of my info is dated and that's fine by me. I think the people that run the greatest risk on Facebook are the ones disclosing everything about themselves.
 
I've registered on FB but have only used it a few times (viewing the Gillette photos, entering a couple of competitions.) But here's what I don't like:

  • I get a ton of phishing emails related to FB. How do I know? They are sent to the wrong addresses (I use a different address everywhere I register.) If I was active on FB, I'm sure this would cause me great inconvenience and confusion. As it is, I know these are all fraudulent emails that I can avoid.
  • Entering competitions on FB involves installing apps. I have no idea how these work or what the security implications are, and I don't think most other users do either. They probably don't care. I do.
The whole thing just seems inherently insecure.
 
I have to be on facebook for work, unfortunately. My profile is on absolute lock-down though. It couldn't possibly be more private, and I don't divulge any more about myself there than is required.
 
I have yet to find one good reason to sign up. A year ago I created a dummy account with an AOL email I never used (and is now expired), just to see pics of my cousin's kids. From what I saw of it, I didn't see any reason to create a real account or continue using it. I can't believe the personal information people post on it. What are people thinking?
 
A friend convinced me to sign up, and now he is a bigger critic of FB than I am. He has de-activated his account several times over the last 3 years, but always comes back within a few days. The last time, he and I had a heck of a time re-friending each other. He couldn't see me and I couldn't see him, and even though we had several mutual friends in common, our pics did not appear when one of us viewed a mutual friend's wall, but the mutual friends could see both of us.

He has about 3,500 "friends" all over the world, mostly people he has not met and will never meet. He is constantly bragging about how many "friends" he has accumulated, and often will post a head-count number each time he reaches a new increment like "2,000" ... "2,500" ... "3,000" ... etc.

I have just 56 friends, but these are people I actually know in real life and want to keep in touch with. I've found people that I knew from 40 years ago, and its been neat to catch up on old times, new times, and times in between.
 
I have two major complaints about FB ... the first, of course, is the privacy issue(s) ... and there's not much we can do about that except lock down our accounts and restrict who sees our info. I run mine through a secure httpS connection, and I have most everything restricted so that only my immediate circle of friends can see it.

My second complaint is about the clunky, obtuse, difficult to navigate user interface. This can be easily solved by installing a browser plug-in called "Better Facebook," available at www.betterfacebook.net . I've been using this for about a year now, and it makes navigating and sorting through all the news feeds and other info much, much easier. In fact, I like it so much that I just donated to the author (Matt Kruse) to encourage him to continue his good work.

If Matt Zuckerbux had as much brains as he did money, he'd buy out the code that Matt Kruse has written, and incorporate it in-house. FB could be a very slick website, or even a stand-alone app ... but not the way it's presently configured.
 
And oh, yeah ... a third complaint. Those stupid game apps.

I DON'T CARE about your Mafia Wars, your Farmville, your Hugs, your Questions, or anything else that wasn't typed by you personally.

I've blocked everything I just mentioned, but every week, something new pops up that one of my friends has signed up for, and I have to go and block that one, too.
 
And oh, yeah ... a third complaint. Those stupid game apps.

I DON'T CARE about your Mafia Wars, your Farmville, your Hugs, your Questions, or anything else that wasn't typed by you personally.

I've blocked everything I just mentioned, but every week, something new pops up that one of my friends has signed up for, and I have to go and block that one, too.

They are so annoying
 
I went through the account deletion process a few weeks ago and haven't missed it at all. I much prefer Google+.
 
I went through the account deletion process a few weeks ago and haven't missed it at all. I much prefer Google+.
I agree with you there ... I'm on G+ and I like it a lot, but there are not enough people on it, yet. Give it another 18 months to develop in terms of both Quantity and Quality, and it will have the type of User Growth Curve that FB has had in the last few years.

That User Growth Curve is what is causing a lot of FB's problems, though ... I'm hoping that Google has learned from FB's mistakes and is making plans / policies / procedures to avoid them in their own Social Networking project.
 
I have yet to hear a good reason to join Facebook.:w00t:
"It's Cool, man ... Everybody's doing it ... C'mon, you'll like it a lot."

(Ironically, I heard similar words of enthusiastic encouragement when I was handed my first joint back in college ... and both FB and THC have proven to be very addictive to many people.)
 
On a related note, have you guys heard that buying things from eBay is sometimes risky? I know, how amazing is that?!?
what is this EeeeBeigh think you speak of? Its news to me. Is it anything like MyBook or FaceSpace? Or is it a local Indiana thing, that nobody else would know about?

Whatever it is ... thanks for the warnings. I'll be sure to avoid it if somebody sends me a link in a Spam message.

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I once registered under the name of Hank Hill just to see what everybody was talking about. I found it to be a time waster.

I loved it when I would see people saying stuff like, "going to get dinner and then the movies" or "going on vacation on fill in the date". I'm like, thanks for the info. Now I know when the house is vacant. Burglers loves this kind of information.
 
I was on it for a few weeks and could not believe the amount of garbage I got. It is almost as bad at Tweeter.
 
I loved it when I would see people saying stuff like, "going to get dinner and then the movies" or "going on vacation on fill in the date". I'm like, thanks for the info. Now I know when the house is vacant. Burglers loves this kind of information.
It works both ways ... there are many reports of how criminals have been caught because they were careless in updating their FB accounts ... often in the middle of crime-scene!
 
Facebook is a tool, it's up to you to decide how to use it.

It's a great way to keep in touch with far-flung and wide-ranging social groups. Once you get beyond your immediate family and friends it's easy to lose track of people, but with Facebook pretty much everyone I ever knew is find-able. That's not a good thing, and it's not a bad thing, it just is. Use it right and it's incredibly valuable. Use it wrong, then shame on you.
 
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