Hey guys. I've got curly hair that has that fuzzy "wire" look when it's dry. So for 20 years, I've been using gel to comb it back, or if short enough, just rub my hands and some gel through it to separate the curls. I never feel as though I've gotten the right stuff. I'm looking for the most chemical/paraben-free gel or pomade that actually works (and washes out). Any recommendations?