I'm interested in the virgin island bay rum a/s. Along with it i'd like to order either the lilac vegetal or the lime sec cologne. I have never smelled bay rum, not that i remember anyway. But I am curious and want it. I also came across the other two listed above. I am a fan of citrus scents and have been wanting a cologne with lime. But I am also very curious about the lilac vegetal now. I dont want to go overboard so any opinions on what the better choice would be?