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Shaving with my daughter?

So a strange little tradition has started in my home and I thought I would share.

Each night I take a nice hot shower, turn on some jazz or big band and shave my head. (I handle my face shaves in the morning.) The nightly head shave is a great way to end the day. Nice and relaxing. I follow it up with a cup of tea and I'm out for the count.

Last week my youngest daughter (6yo) asked if she could come in and watch me shave. Glenn Miller was playing and she was doing some dancing. As I was lathering up, she asked if I would wipe some on her face. So I lathered up her face. She was laughing and we were both having fun. I used it as a way to teach her about not touching daddy's razors because they are sharp, don't touch the blade bank, etc.

The next night she asked if we could do it again, so we did. This time she asked if she could use a razor to "shave" with. So I took down my Lady Gillette, showed her that there was no blade, and off she went. In my opinion her blade angle was off and she was using too much pressure, but what do I know.

So now my daughter has been "shaving" with me nightly. She calls the Lady Gillette "her razor". She likes the blue stars. She says that it's what she will use when she has to shave her legs like mommy and big sis.

There is a chance that I may be psychologically scarring her for life. I don't know anyone that shaves with their 6yo daughter. Hopefully this isn't the case. My oldest has grown up so fast that I've learned to take any and all bonding moments and cherish them.

I always assumed that someday I would teach my SON how to shave, but he is far too young and my daughter seems to enjoy it so what the heck.

For anyone that might be wondering, her favorite soap is Cella. She loves the scent. She is learning about lather and is happy to point out of she sees any "small bubbles" in my lather.

Too much fun.

Happy Holidays.

Rob
 
sounds like you and i have a similar story....i do the same thing with my 5 yr old daughter at night.....i give her an unbladed Gem open comb and she prefers razorock classic.
 
sounds like you and i have a similar story....i do the same thing with my 5 yr old daughter at night.....i give her an unbladed Gem open comb and she prefers razorock classic.

Thats great! It really is a lot of fun. I coach my daughter in ice hockey. This morning she told one of the other coaches that "Daddy and I shave at night." He looked at me like I was crazy!
 
Sounds like you are spending some quality time with your daughter to me. Look at it this way, she may never use a cart in her life, and think how good she will be at creating a lather if she is starting now. Cherish it for as long as you can, you will never get that time back.
 
I've got a son who's about to turn one. I've been doing a lot of reading about psychology (I wouldn't call myself anything resembling an "expert", or "educated") and I wouldn't worry. I would look at this as a bonding moment. My boy's just about to start walking, and he is almost obsessed with crawling into my bathroom and playing with my soaps. The blades, razors, and brushes are kept on the top and second-to-top shelves, so I'm not terribly worried. When he's older I expect him to be interested in what daddy does in there with all that stuff, and if he wants, as long as he's quiet, he can sit in there and watch.

Yeah, totes convinced this is nothing but beneficial and a special father-daughter bonding thingy.
 

ChiefBroom

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Absolutely wonderful story!

It stirs deep memories -- not really memories, more just the sense that a thousand aggregated memories leave behind after they're no longer individually remembered in the absence of some specific prompting. I have a 24-year-old daughter (and son-in-law) and a 22-year-old son.

Cherish the time.
 
Not fixing this is the biggest problem! :laugh:

In my opinion her blade angle was off and she was using too much pressure, but what do I know.

Don't overthink it, Rob. She is having excellent quality time with her dad and it is something you can both remember and looking back fondly upon. Nothing psychologically scarring about that in my book! :thumbup:
 
+1. My 8 year old daughter shaves with me on the weekends. She loves the feel of Proraso Green on her face but prefers the scent of TBS Maca Root.

For the record, she said my brush was scratchy. Had to remedy that with a new brush immediately!
 
I don't have any children (or plan on any really) but it's stories like this one (and all the other father son/daughter) that warm my heart a bit.
 
That's nice, Rob.

My daughter is 4 and she also likes to see Daddy's shaving routine.

Me and her like both to watch "Shaun, the sheep" episodes. In the intro, the farmer lathers and shaves.
Whenever I'm lathering, my girl tells me it's just like the farmer at "Shaun, the sheep".

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My daughter 4 watches me shaving while she has her bubble bath and I can keep a close eye on her. So granted it's not always alone time that I have but a shared moment nonetheless. Sometimes she ask if she can open the razors and I let her and she likes smelling the various soaps. She's starting school soon. Snif. :sad:
 
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That's sweet. I just started wet shaving and my kids haven't noticed yet.
My son is entranced with my automatic toothbrush, tho.
Your story puts a rubber mug at the top of my wishlist now; I don't want my daughter knocking over my mug...
 

musicman1951

three-tu-tu, three-tu-tu
My children are grown - and it happens faster than you can imagine. Any time spent with your children is good time.

I'm jealous - enjoy every minute.
 
You are certainly not alone on this one.
My 8 year old daughter loves giving her opinion on the smell of my creams and every so often she will apply my lather. I then spend the next few minutes fishing lather out of my ears and nostrils.
 
I have a real "warm your heart" father/daughter story to share:

She's 27 now so this must gave been 13 years ago. She had been living with her mother and wanted to come live with dad for a while. She wanted me to take her to get her upper lip waxed, all the while bemoaning my Italian heritage and why I had to pass it on to her. Now there's a lot of things I don't know about raising girls, but I do know I'm not about to go find a place to have her lip waxed.

Here's where it begins to go bad. At this point she didn't realize what sarcasm was, and how sarcastic her father was. No, I didn't tell her to shave, think I'm crazy?!

"Just use some duct tape" I say.

Well I come home from work, she's on the couch crying, face buried in her hands. I finally calm her down enough to talk to me and she looks up at me, with those eyes only a daughter has, and this face ....

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Needless to say I started getting some female help from that point on.

We still laugh about it. It was definitely a bonding point but it sure did not feel like it back then. :biggrin1:
 
Awesome stories. Love reading this stuff. I enjoy any bonding time I can get. When you leave this world all you can take with you are memories. Have as many good ones as you can.
 
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