Always been a fan of TOBS rose cream.
It's got nothing to do with being sensitive or uncomfortable.Well I guess in this day and age of people having more than sensitive skin. We need to mindful of that only opinions that don’t make people uncomfortable are only allowed. But people should be aware of what people think of a product for good or bad. If something smells like women’s perfume and you’re ok smelling like that knock yourself out. Also having someone point out that it’s not a masculine scent might save a person money in not buying it.
Lavender is a very traditional scent and is fine for a man. If you have any doubt do a search of Lavender and shaving and see how many hits you get of modern stuff.
The masculinity of a man is not defined by what he smells like, but rather by how he behaves.
In fact, it can be said that a man truly comfortable with his own masculinity wouldn't think twice about wearing a floral scent.
Wear what you want, and what you like.
I'd venture to say that a guy who can wear what some might consider a "feminne scent" is probably more secure in his masculinity than one who wouldn't wear it only because he considers it "feminine". Specifically excluding those who don't wear them because they don't like them or are alergic to them.
The whole feminine / masculine thing has been shoved down our throats by the advertising world who through market research has discovered that they can get more of our money if they sell similar items marketed towards men and women separately.
The pink Lady Gillette shaves every bit as good as a Superspeed, a good Rose Soap is a good soap, and DaVinci Water smells pretty good to me.
A real man is secure enough in his masculinity that he doesn't worry that some schmoe who isn't secure in his masculinity will think it isn't masculine. He knows better.
And so did John Wayne, who had a bottle of it in his shave kit.
Perhaps TOBS Lavender or T&H rose or even the tobacco flower scented Tabac.
A real man is so secure in his masculinity that even a floral scent can smell masculine.
It's a myth.
There are people who can wear a floral scent and still be a "real man", and there are people who try to dress and smell "manly" and still remain insecure in their own masculinity.
Straw man argument. A woman with a beard who can kick my butt isn't feminine to begin with, and wearing a floral scent isn't going to help her with that.
The OP of the thread asked
John Wayne's dopp kit sold on ebay and contained a bottle of Lilac Vegetal. Yep. Lilacs. John Wayne isn't "man-ly"?
My post was in reply to another poster who asked
No fragrance "makes" one more or less of a man.
You speak of "perception" and that's not what this is about. The questions have been does a fragrance make one more or less manly. The true answer is that no scent can change ones masculinity.
In any case, no one can control what another person "perceives" - you might wear Hydrochloric Acid scent and have someone perceive it as feminine.
If you take a scent into the jungles of Borneo and ask the inhabitants who have not been raised in a culture similar to ours if that scent is "masculine" or "feminine" you won't get the expected answer.
If you sell Lavender Talc, some men won't buy it.
If you sell Lavender Talc for men, they will.
Same thing with certain colors.
If you are confident and secure in your masculinity, it doesn't matter, but not all men are.
Real men like you and I are secure enough in our masculinity to wear pink.
We exude so much testosterone that people asked about it later swear that we were wearing desert camo.
TOBS lavender is a nice bright lavender scent, although to me it has a slight chemical smell.
I really like Stirling Bergamot Lavender. It gets a lot of use in the spring.
MdC Original has a lot of lavender.
Yes indeed!Phil @luvmysuper , do you like the Lavender and Rose scent? I LOVE them entirely. Both have been used in perfumery for men and women since time immemorial. I remember my first visit in London back in 2008 at Trumpers where I was told that nothing identifies better the true English Gentleman than Rose fragranced grooming products!
P.S. I love pink shirts and ties, too!
Dear gents,
Before pulling the trigger on CF Lavender, I want to ensure consistency.
CF is a "cream" rather than a "croap," just like DR Harris or TOBS cream.
Am I right?
When using DR Harris or TOBS cream, I scoop a little cream into my brush rather than load it directly.
In my experience, extra water makes cream disappear quickly.
Thank you all.
I appreciate your valuable opinions.
MdC - no post shave and uses some synthetics in their rose.
Vincent:Maybe I will get CF or GD Lavender.
Is GD Lavender dark-sided?
If my memory works, some gents reported GD English Lavender tends to be dark.
Thanks a lot.
Amen to the Salter Wild Rose CreamCyril L. Salter wild rose cream is really good. My fave of the rose scented creams.
Strong? Sure is.. I can smell it all the way to here in Texas...too strong for me...Castle Forbes has a strong true lavender smell. That is what I would use if looking for pure lavender.