If you're looking for a mild razor just go to Ebay and get a vintage Gillette Super Speed for $15. Use any blade other than Feather if you are new and cutting up your face. Reduce pressure.
+1.
I couldn't tame the R41 even with more experience than you have. Peeled several layers of skin, every shave a blood bath.Why go though having a sore face every day?
After 4 years, milder/kinder razors are my lane (Superspeed 40's, Fatboy at 6, Flare, Tech, Rockwell at 3). I don't have to obsess too much about technique, the shaves are very good to excellent, no blood and face feels superb after the shave.
Get a Superspeed as a learner for 15 bucks or so.
Mike