I'm not trying to blend. I wear what I wear for me, not for others although I hope they enjoy it. Too strong and even I don't want to be near me. Airing the scent out of a leather jacket or watch strap takes a while. Leather absorbs fragrances.
Granted you can wear 6 spritzes for yourself but there is an old saying: Your right to swing your arm ends at my jaw. Too much cologne is the olfactory equivalent of screaming at everyone rather than talking to them. It's like blasting your music in the subway.
I guess I get screamed at every day by lots of women wearing scents strongly.
Funny how no one ever criticises them.
Cheers,
Renato