Good clarification and I'll add that Todd, from Science of Sharp, uses metal polish on a denim strop to remove the foil edge, and Murry Carter runs the edge through softwood. I think those are probably better methods if you just want to remove the foil edge, but it seems that jointing is one of those contentious topics. I tend to use chromium oxide on a flax linen strop to do this but I don't know if it actually counts as jointing, but it does accomplish the same goal as far as I can see.Jointing the edge is to remove any false edge/burr from the edge. Even stropping with light pressure on a linen strop with some play in counts as jointing in my opinion.
This is often enough.
Killing the edge on the side of a stone is just that, killing the edge. You need a really light thouch.
There is also a big difference if you do this on a hard coarse stone, or if you use a softer polishing stone.
In the old videos from Solingen they use a piece of wet horn.