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Some *** tried to mug my SIL

It happened Monday as she was leaving work. She was walking through the parking garage and she saw someone kind of hanging around. As she walked past him he came up grabbed her by the waist and jammed a screwdriver into her back. He told her to go to her car and she complied. On the way there she told him he could have her purse and he said he didn't want her purse. He didn't know it, but she was taking him to her car. She led him to the bottom floor thinking the security office was there. When she got to the bottom floor she realized the office wasn't down there. She started walking towards a car, reached in her purse for her "keys" and grabbed the pepper spray (the one I gave my wife, who gave it to her) and aimed it back in towards his face and let him have it. She heard him cough and start to weeze. She turned around and he was holding his face at which point she hauled off and kicked him square in the nuts. She then dropped everything and took off running and eventually found the security office. They called the police and then recovered all of her belongings.

My wife talked to her last night and she is still very shook up over the whole thing. Her employer is being less than cooperative. The did let her park out front yesterday, but aren't stepping up as far as increasing security or offering escorts. The security guard even went as far as to chastise and reprimand her for having the pepper spray on the grounds because it's against company policy (along w/ firearms). The investigating officer involved basically told the security guard to get bent. The police station is right across the street from her employer so the officer has given her permission to park there from now on.

She is very confused about the whole thing. Even going as far as second guessing her judgment. She thinks she did the wrong thing by defending herself and feels she put herself at more risk by doing so. I guess she still thinks he just wanted her car. As I told my wife, she's better being in this situation then the alternative of being in a hospital after being brutally raped and beaten.

So far no perp has been caught. She has gone through tons of mugshots w/ the police, but hasn't been able to identify anyone yet.
 
Whoa... quite the story.. so glad it worked out well for her
she has reason to be shook up over the fact.

Shame on the security guard .. not surprised really :mad3:

Look out for #1

she done good!
 
Wow. Good for her! Sounds like she was really able to keep a clear head during the ordeal. I hope to heck that my daughters grow up to be able to defend themselves that way.
 
the situation is definitely unpleasant, what is appalling is the response from her company and the security guard. of course she did the right thing, she even took a risk looking for the guard, where he should have been? we have the right to defend ourselves, people vary in their opinion on how far they would go given a circumstance but not acting could have been much worse in that situation. she used pepper spray, he was lucky she was not a concealed carry person who had no qualms about using a firearm against him.

I would seriously evaluate if i would be willing to work for that company given their response if i was in that situation. if it had been a wife/GF i would be insistent that the company policy change or that job hunting starts.
 
Wow, that's horrible. Good for her for fighting back though.

My house was robbed last year while we were out (at least), and the cops show up 3.5 hours after I called 911. They just come, and fill out a report, ant that's it. There's no justice, as nobody was caught.

I still think sometimes what I would have done to that *** had I caught him/her in the process of ransacking my place. They wouldn't come back, that would be for sure.
 
Good for her. She did the right thing.

I think the fact that he said "I don't want your purse" indicates that this wasn't going to be a simple mugging. If he just wanted the car he would of accosted her near her car.
I believe she saved herself, and she should be proud of her actions.

The response of her employer and security staff are typical of people who are more concerned with lawsuits than security.

Were there surveillence cameras?
 
Good on her! Bad on her Jackass company/boss, he sounds like a right BE to me. I certainly would not chastise her, and TBH, company policy can go hang, I'd have a gun from now on, unless someone looks in her bag (do they do random searches???) who's gonna know she has a little .22 semi (unlikely at anything other than close range to kill, but someone shooting at you, however badly will make you get your head down and offer a chance of escape.)

Don't let the thug get the better of her, if he does, he has won, and never second guess yourself, I got attacked and have second guessed myself ever since (almost 2.5 years!) and it eats you up inside, don't let it do that to her, at the end of the day, she got away, she inflicted more injury on him than he did her, that is a victory, she needs to keep that in perspective, she behaved properly and sensibly, making for the security office was a good thought.

Hope she "gets over it" soon,
Tom
 
I think the fact that he said "I don't want your purse" indicates that this wasn't going to be a simple mugging. If he just wanted the car he would of accosted her near her car.
Agreed, never go with someone as once in seclusion you don't know what they will do. As said, if he wanted money he'd have taken the bag and run, car accostr closer and grab bag for keys, sounds more like something much nastier.......

Tom
 
Interestingly enough, I do believe she has a CCW, but not a carry piece. I know she can handle a gun as my brother in law is a another good 'ol boy and taught her to do so. I've yet to talk to her about it, but I'm more than certain the perp was wanting more than the car. I really wish she would've palm heeled him in the nose after she doubled him over.

It's baffling to me that this happened at 2:30 in the afternoon in a parking garage. This is on a hospital campus of more than 3,000 employees and is not in a ghetto location. Her employer is beyond irritating to me. I would think they should be more concerned about protecting their employees than any other type of lawsuit. At least she was able to defend herself.
 
Please tell your sister in law that she did the right thing. I'm sure you have already but she probably needs to hear it often for a while. She probably needs a few hugs too.

I think she behaved well under pressure. Not easy to do! Her judgment was sound. Her employer should be pleased that someone so solid is working for them.

Please relay all our thoughts to her.
 
the situation is definitely unpleasant, what is appalling is the response from her company and the security guard. of course she did the right thing, she even took a risk looking for the guard, where he should have been? we have the right to defend ourselves, people vary in their opinion on how far they would go given a circumstance but not acting could have been much worse in that situation. she used pepper spray, he was lucky she was not a concealed carry person who had no qualms about using a firearm against him.
exactly. It's already been said he didn't want her possessions, clearly indicates he had more nefarious intentions.
Her response was adequate, and fully justified - she has all of her possessions, and she wasn't further harmed than the mental and emotional trauma she is going through.
I would seriously evaluate if i would be willing to work for that company given their response if i was in that situation. if it had been a wife/GF i would be insistent that the company policy change or that job hunting starts.
precisely. that boss can get bent. we live in a scary time and place where the criminals are catered to, and the innocent victims who defend themselves are treated as law-breakers.
B.S.

Had a D.A.R.E. teacher tell us once, "better to be tried by twelve then carried by six".

She's safe, the perpetrator did not get what he wanted, and got a some agony for his efforts (although in a cell with Big Bubba would be justice).

She may want to talk with a counselor or pastor to help move beyond this some, but let her know a forum of 10,000+ strangers salute her actions. :biggrin:
 
A citizen must assume responsibility for their own safety. Your sister-in-law did. She has earned a big hug. Her employer has earned a kick in the nuts.
 
Don't forget to get her a fresh replacement for her pepper spray!

Do they do anything stronger? Like battery acid or caustic soda, it'd be much easier to identify the perp, "Yes sir it's the one with the burns across his upper body.....".

Agreed on getting a CC piece, even a gun filled with blanks when fired in a parking garage will make an attacker think twice....... and give you a couple of vital seconds to get away.......

Maybe he thought she was a doctor with drugs in her medical bag in her car?????? "Junkies have strange thinkin's".

Tom
 
Everything's a risk. Some things more so than others.

If she hadn't defended herself, you would have written a much different post.

There's no crime in defending yourself. She did the right thing. Sometimes the right thing doesn't feel right because of what "everyone else" says.
 
Do they do anything stronger? Like battery acid or caustic soda, it'd be much easier to identify the perp, "Yes sir it's the one with the burns across his upper body.....".
was just doing a search on pepper sprays/mace; I lost the page, but there's one that has a pepper spray and mace blend, along with a dye in the mix that stains the clothes and skin....unless my research turns up something negative about it, that's what I'll be replacing my wife's spray with - soon
 
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