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A Fat Man's Journal

I'm starting this thread to record my progress and or failures in an attempt to accomplish a goal of becoming fit and healthy for the rest of my life.

Currently I am in the hands of the workers compensation system due to bulging or rupturing two lower back discs(depends on which dr I talk to). I have been laid up in bed for almost 3 months now, only getting up to take kids to school and to go to their various sporting events. Basically, about 18-20 hours of the day laying in bed. I went through a rough spell the first couple of months that included way too much alcohol in an attempt to manage the pain. As of mid September, after seeing how much weight I had gained in 2 months, I decided to quit drinking and went serious low carb for a month. So far I've dropped 18lbs. I've done the ultra low carb diet before, and while it works great for me, I know I won't stick to it long term. I've decided to eat what I would call a common sense diet, but others might feel it's more along the lines of a Paleo diet. My diet will consist only of foods that can be eaten in their natural state. So basically any un-tampered with meats, lots of vegetables(mostly leafy greens), and some fruit. Grass-fed, free-range, all organic is the preferred choice, but I'm not going to do without because the local store is all out of "free range" eggs and the broccoli may have been crop-dusted. As far as exercise goes, it will be walking and moderate resistance training for my upper body with my dusty Bowflex.

Yesterday was my first day on the road back to health. I don't plan to log all of my meals here, or all of my exercise, mostly I'll be reporting progresses and failures. I walked 1.25 miles yesterday, which took me 35 minutes to accomplish, last night my right leg started going numb while fixing the kids dinner. Problems like this are to be expected considering my situation, so I plan to take it nice and slow and do what I can when I can. I only plan on updating once a week or so, and I plan to weigh myself about the same. All encouraging replies are welcome, as well as inquiries.

Thanks for looking.
 
What is that saying again: "The journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step" or something like that.
The only thing I'd change is throw the scale out, yes I know the plan is to lose weight but folks can get WAY to caught up on what the numbers are vs are they making changes, getting healthier, are the clothes getting tighter and looser in the right areas etc.

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I'm a big guy, myself. I've done various diets to try and lose weight, some with more success than others. The only one I've found that really works well for me, is Weight Watchers. A few years ago, I lost about 95 lbs. using their program, before I got lazy and started trying to manage my weight on my own, which did not work. I'm back on WW, and losing weight again, and this time intend to make the changes permanent.


Best of luck to you!
 
The only thing I'd change is throw the scale out, yes I know the plan is to lose weight but folks can get WAY to caught up on what the numbers are vs are they making changes, getting healthier, are the clothes getting tighter and looser in the right areas etc.
Thanks, I agree about the scale, but I don't obsess about it. I was going to weigh once a month, but for the early stages I think once a week will help me track progress. I do have various clothing articles that I can't currently wear, they are a motivating factor as well.
 
I disagree about ditching the scale. It is important not to obsess over the scale numbers, and I only ever weigh myself once a week. I find, though, that without the feedback from the scale, it's really hard for me to see when things aren't going well. One of the reasons I went off plan last time, and put a bunch of weight back on, was that I stopped weighing myself. It's easy to lie to yourself and say you're doing fine, when you don't have the scale numbers staring you in the face.
 

Commander Quan

Commander Yellow Pantyhose
Good Luck Jason, both with the weight loss and the disc issue.

I went down the herniated disc road about 4 years ago, while self medicating with Cinnamon Toast Crunch and double cheeseburgers, it sucks because you hurt all the time and it just wears on you, but I'm sure your food choices will help with some inflammation as well as cutting some body weight.
 
Congratulations on your choice! I think you are in the right frame of mind to embark on your journey, and I agree with the posters above. Of the various things to be mindful of, I think one of the biggest is to forgive yourself and not get too down if you have a few hiccups with your diet and eat something you probably shouldn't have. All too often progress is undone not by the momentary lapse in judgment with diet, but rather it's undone with the self-doubt and indulging self-pity once one slips up. Some days will be better than others, so just learn to stay the course and don't get down if you slip up.

Good luck!!
 
Congrats! Always good to have a plan even if you need to modify it along the way. I think using a scale or not using a scale depends upon you. Some people see the weight dropping and get more inspired while others see a weight drop and "reward" themselves with more food. I fall into the latter category and it's better for me if I don't weigh myself as often. I know when I'm losing weight because my clothes fit and I feel better. It's all about finding what works for you that you can stick with. Best of luck!
 
Argonaut, I dropped 70 lbs. and have managed to keep it off. I am currently a very trim 169, down from almost 240. The biggest help to me was an app called Lose It. My Fitness Pal is also very good. They are calorie counters. I have found that losing weight is a simple equation. Find out what your maintenance level of calories is and eat less than that. I lost 35 lbs. before I did a lick of exercise.

What these apps do is ask your current weight, your goal weight, and how much per week you want to lose (1 or 2 lbs.). From that point they very gradually reduce your calories. They have a huge database of foods that you can search for and you can add your own. You can even scan bar codes from packages. They don't cut your food consumption in half all of a sudden so it doesn't seem drastic at all.

Once you get the hang of adding your food to the app, it becomes simple. I tend to eat the same things from day to day, so I can just go into previous meals and check it.

Good luck!
 
Argonaut, I dropped 70 lbs. and have managed to keep it off. I am currently a very trim 169, down from almost 240. The biggest help to me was an app called Lose It. My Fitness Pal is also very good. They are calorie counters. I have found that losing weight is a simple equation. Find out what your maintenance level of calories is and eat less than that. I lost 35 lbs. before I did a lick of exercise.

What these apps do is ask your current weight, your goal weight, and how much per week you want to lose (1 or 2 lbs.). From that point they very gradually reduce your calories. They have a huge database of foods that you can search for and you can add your own. You can even scan bar codes from packages. They don't cut your food consumption in half all of a sudden so it doesn't seem drastic at all.

Once you get the hang of adding your food to the app, it becomes simple. I tend to eat the same things from day to day, so I can just go into previous meals and check it.

Good luck!

This is basically a simplified version of the WW program.
 
I used the MyFitnessPal app as well. At least initially. It's a good idea to know how many calories you're really taking in and it makes it easy to watch protein, fiber, fat, water intake, etc. I was pretty religious with it for over 9 months, but after awhile you get a good feel for how much you're eating. I found it good to measure servings of things for awhile too. You may think you're only having a tablespoon of this or a cup of that, but you may really be eating twice that amount. It's definitely easier to change things if you measure them.
 
My Fitbit One step tracker showed up yesterday, this thing is super cool with the online sync! So far so good on the eating and walking, about 2 miles yesterday. My leg is still going numb and my pace is what would generally be referred to as a "mosey", the people out for a stroll pass me. Haven't weighed recently, probably wont until Monday. I used the Bowflex tuesday, so I'm due for another session tonight, just some basic upper body work, slow and steady wins the race.
 
Jason, congratulations on your decision & good luck to you.

I've lost 75 lbs over the last 18 months - and have maintained my close-to-goal weight for the past 6.

I've got lots of good information from sparkpeople.com - I use the calorie tables at myfitnesspal, take advice from webMD.com, etc etc etc.

Keeping a daily food log has been the big help for me - I started that on September 19, 2012 - I managed to half-*** lose a few pounds before that, but real success came for me only when I started using a scale to measure my portions and then logging my intake. (And I know I'm on the verge of backsliding when I start estimating the size of my portions instead of measuring...!)

I also log time & distance walked/jogged. That helps me keep calories taken in/expended in some sort of rough balance.

I weigh myself every day - not for everyone, but it's worked for me.

I found a site that allows me to estimate (roughly, I'm sure) the number of calories necessary to maintain my weight; from that I can extrapolate how many to cut per day to lose weight at a particular rate.

I didn't get fat/out of shape overnight - I'm not going to get healthy and sleek overnight, either.


Again - congratulations!
 
Today makes one week since starting the diet and exercise. So far I've managed to walk at least 30 minutes every day, some days up to an hour. I used the Bow Flex(formally known as the worlds most expensive coat rack) three times, strictly for arms, shoulders and upper back, all from a seated position. My back problem is making it a challenge but my new Fitbit One really helps to motivate me to reach my daily goals(thanks Noah for your thread on it). I have stayed true to my diet, though it's been more like 50% vegetables than 75%. Did you guys know that kale is a foul weed that bacon can't even make palatable? Cutting out dairy hasn't been too difficult, and I'm not really having any issues with cravings for junk food. Cooking a couple of pounds of the cheap "irregular sliced" bacon and keeping it in a baggie in the freezer makes for a quick salty snack. I also cut out my long time friend Diet Dr Pepper, who I do miss, but certainly something I can live without. My wife bought me one of those home carbonation systems a while ago, so when I feel the need for something fizzy I can make a quick pint of carbonated water with some lemon or lime. I have found a new appreciation for cabbage, broccoli, red bell peppers and asparagus, along with various types of lettuce. So far so good, I weighed this morning and I am down 8lbs, so that's encouraging:a20:. Today might prove challenging to get my walking in since it's pouring rain and is supposed to continue all day, but I'll find something to do. I have an appointment tomorrow with a different spine doctor, hopefully he will find a solution to my problem. That's about all there is to say. I appreciate all the encouragement from everyone.
 

Commander Quan

Commander Yellow Pantyhose
Nice job Jason.

Have you tried making Kale chips? They're super easy to make and I could eat a ton of them if my wife could just keep up to speed baking them as fast as I could eat them.
 
Nice job Jason.

Have you tried making Kale chips? They're super easy to make and I could eat a ton of them if my wife could just keep up to speed baking them as fast as I could eat them.
I have half a bunch of green kale and a full bunch of red kale left. Kale chips were going to be my last attempt before trying to sneak it into one of the kids smoothies.
 
Good luck, Jason! Sounds like you are doing great so far, keep it up! I agree, kale is a vile, vile weed. Not even kale in chip form is edible. It needs so much salt that it's not even healthier than a potato chip at that time.
 
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