My largest problem area so far is my lower neck. I don't think I am using a huge amount of pressure, but they still come out irritated from the straight shave.
I am not getting my upper lip, or chin very close either, but I expect that at this point in the game.
As for tallow soaps, I think I have about five choices in my den:
Tabac, Vintage Williams, P160, Cella, Prairie Creations. I tend to use shaving creams more often, and I am presently working through some TOBS Rose, and T and H Rose.
Well for me what made a heck of a big difference was, and it will sound obvious and you will think you know it already . . . make your intention to shave the beard off your face . . . I was trying hard to take all my beard off my face in one pass . . . . so I pressed hard . . .never drew blood . . .
I do four passes now . . . just trying to catch the beard . . . and it is working wonders