now i dont know what t get? EJ DE89 or Mekur 34c or a vintage.. so many choices...
What all these choices really are telling you is that it's pretty hard to go wrong. DE shaving, as it turns out, ain't all that dadgum hard.
It's kind of like driving, that way--very intimidating, until you just get behind the wheel and do it a few times. You rarely see someone ask "what is a good beginner car for me to start driving on?" There are a lot more cars that are better to learn on than not.
So, allow me to revise my advice. I think it's better to look at what you shouldn't start off with than what you should. Don't spend a lot of money on a DE razor. While folks may sing songs about a $200 razor/handle combo that they just couldn't live without, you might find that you don't enjoy DE shaving, and then you're out all that cash. That said, don't go get the super-cheap, $4 China Special off of Fleabay or something like that. Look for a moderately priced, mild to moderate razor that is known for it's quality. Everything mentioned above pretty much fits that bill, so you really cannot go wrong.
That said, you might find that you don't like the particular razor you chose in the first place. Well, that's not the end of the world, as you ought to be able to sell it off for pretty close to what you paid for it and go try another.
To get back to specifics, there are two avenues that I do not recall anyone mentioning, yet:
One is to look for an adjustable razor. Some folks say "don't get an adjustable, as you'll spend more time adjusting it than shaving with it." Well, you don't have to futz with it. The point is that you don't quite know what sort of razor will suit you, so you might want to spend a bit more to get a whole bunch of razors all wrapped up in one. You can pick up a vintage Gillette Slim or Super Adjustable typically for around $45, give or take (although a sharp, diligent eye often can pick one up for substantially less).
Another option is to check out the "Vintage Razor Test Drive" at Garry's Sample Shop. For a very reasonable price, Garry will send you a vintage Gillette razor, 10 blades, an Omega brush, a stick of Arko, and a couple samples of aftershave. If you don't like the razor, you can send it back with the provided certificate and he'll send you another one. If you do like it, you can use the same certificate for $10 worth of samples. Hard to go wrong, there.
Enjoy!