Sam, you can spend lots of money on car care products. Similar to wetshaving products. Check out this site:
http://www.poorboysworld.com/
They have great products that are reasonable. I have use their products for several years.
They make great products. I like their polishes.
I have been detailing cars for 20 years now. If I am going to name a company that has outstanding products it is Meguiar's. They have a comsumer line and a professional line of items. I prefer spray bottles to those wipes in a can. They have a great leather cleaners and conditioner. To help you out a small bit they have a car care RX on their site, it may help guide you a bit in what you are trying to do. The reason I mention this company is that you can get the items almost anywhere. Car Care RX
Meguiars is also great. Plus you can buy stuff in bulk.
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