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Why can't I smell girls' soaps?

It has happened TWICE now.

First I was at a soap crafter's table at a carnival. I was happily sniffing away at the lavender, rose, teaberry and other samples when the proprietor storms over and informs me that "the mens' section is over here!" I was then lead to a small corner of the booth, in which were kept colorless bars of soap that had no scent, or smelled faintly of Stetson cologne.

I wandered back to the soaps with the pretty colors and scents, and was one again instructed that only the soaps she had shown me would be appropriate for a man's use. :out:

I had thought of inquiring about the insecurities of the men in her life, but kept my mouth shut and walked 25 feet away to another soap booth (where I spent about $40).

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I walked into Bath & Body Works a while back looking for the C.O. Bigelow shaving cream that's really Proraso in a nicer tube, but stopped to try some vanilla hand moisturizer from the tester pump.

Immediately the store supervisor rushed over with a look of genuine concern on her face, and informed me that the only products available for men were in a small, 2 foot section of shelf in the back.

When I got to looking at the Jasmine Cherry Blossom hand sanitizer, she decided to escort me to the mens' section, and explained that the majority of the store was products intended for women. :rolleyes1

What gives? Are these women used to being around men who are too insecure to use a product that smells in any way floral? Do the men in their lives soothe their chapped hands only with motor oil? Do they shower only with Ivory, because Irish Spring is too girly?

Coincidentally, I was just given a bottle of the Jasmine Cherry Blossom hand sanitizer by a woman in my office, who found the scent too masculine for her. :lol:
 
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This same situation has happened to me over and over at fragrance counters. It's beyond the comprehension of most sales associates I have met that a man might like the smell of a perfume in the "women's" section. I don't get it.
 
Whu? :blink:
What if you were buying a gift for someone? Or what if you just liked more floral scents? How strange and also rude of them.

Take me shopping with you next time - I'm curious as to what "teaberry" smells like now! :biggrin1:
 
Whu? :blink:
What if you were buying a gift for someone? Or what if you just liked more floral scents? How strange and also rude of them.

Take me shopping with you next time - I'm curious as to what "teaberry" smells like now! :biggrin1:

You can smell and taste Teaberry right here. Its hard to describe, but its kind of like traditional bubblegum with wintergreen and birch flavors mixed in, and the scent is pretty much the same as the taste. I thing its a local thing in my area, as I can get the gum, soap, and even ice cream in Teaberry.
 
15 sticks for just €40 or so (plus shipping) - SOLD :lol::lol::lol:

I'll keep my eyes out for it somewhere around locally but I've never heard of it before.
 
I get this ALL the time, from the fragrance counter, to candles, to beauty products. I'm fairly manly, man, but it's like if I'm even sniffing something female they always make a point of showing me the men's section. I've taken to either smirking and saying "thank you, I know" or asking for something very specific that tells them I know what I'm looking at.


the truth is though, it's not their fault. That's what most people think. We're a small group of people who aren't bound by those preconceptions but 99/100 of men would be surprised and dash into the safety of mens products. I mean it's not like I'm trying on skirts, but apparently men aren't supposed to smell like flowers. I've stopped trying to argue or explain, I just keep to myself and tell them i'm doing just fine without any help and then go about my business.
 
One time I was trying on this FABULOUS pair of fishnet stockings at a high end department store, and was promptly escorted elsewhere!

The nerve!





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Ivory soap, motor oil, gasoline, kerosene, linseed oil, turpentine, pine tar, sweat and grime are fine for me, really they are! It feels good, but I don't want to smell like that all the time (or even much of the time). Incidently Ivory soap take off most of those odors quite quickly. The hair holds odor worst.

I like scents other than "manly" scents and find many cologne's offensive (especially when first applied). I had the same experience at bath and body works. I like the vanilla and many floral and plant oil variaties. I felt frog marched through Bath and Body works last time I was there. Maybe a beaten up, stained, carhart jacket and a 2 year old in tow was too intimidating.

Phil

PS I own and occasionally wear a pink ("salmon") dress shirt and matching tie.
 
First ask the sales associate her name.
Look her in the eye, and tell her,

"Honey, a real man sniffs whatever he damn well pleases.".
 
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One time I was trying on this FABULOUS pair of fishnet stockings at a high end department store, and was promptly escorted elsewhere!

The nerve!





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FWIW it is said by people who have tested this that on the average women's sense of smell is much more sensitive than men's. In theory we should be the ones wanting the the stronger scents.
 
It's not about sniffing, it's about buying. The sales staff knows that men don't linger in stores, they're in and out, and that guys are often uncomfortable in a "woman's" store. They're trying to get you into the guy's section before you get wander back out without buying anything.

If you want to stay in the women's section, try telling them that you're shopping for a gift for a woman. You won't be able to get rid of the salesclerk at that point, but at least they won't be steering you across the store by your arm.
 
Our local Bath and body works carries exactly 0 mens products and when men enter the store the amazon guards pop out of the corner and say where is your female escort. Atleast that's what it feels like.
 
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