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I've come a long way maturing, I thank B&B for some of this.

16 Years old, life didn't matter, all that did was hang out, skipping school, and doing things I should not discuss online :scared: "Long hair, don't care"
17 Years old, not much changed, except a girlfriend of mine was going to graduate before I did, so I finally started to take things serious...
18 and 19 Years old I worked hard to graduate high school, I was a year late, but I made it out with a diploma =]

Worked at a shipyard from 19-20, then an office where the female to male ratio was about 10-1 :001_wub: no more info is required...


20-23 was a blur, I was going to join the coast guard when I got a temporary nerve paralysis of my face, aka Bells Palsy, and I just never ended up making it after that because I depleted my savings on buying remedies for that, and needed a job asap, working odd jobs to support the little bit of responsibilities.... still got long hair, LOL
I met a girl that I am still dating, she tried to show me the things in life that I felt were too expensive, or just plain dumb, which now I have a huge appreciation for and own some of the stuff, shaving brushes? who the heck needs that crap? a leather shaving bag which costs $100+? That is just plain dumb, I rather blow it on going out and partying!
24 years old , I decided to join an apprenticeship program for the naval shipyard, the day before my start date, off went the pony tail, short hair!
27 years old, I started looking on the internet because I was tired of ingrowns and razor burn associated with cartridge shaving.... I landed on the art of manliness blog, which got me up here... Several razors, blades, soaps, creams later, I think I found some stuff which works for me! I've bought ebay lots consisting of 5,10 razors just to have one and tried to clean them up and sell them on here at a fair price... I have tried to get friends and family into the lifestyle, but like me, they are hard headed and will make the switch when they are ready I suppose.

so here I am, 28, about to be 29 in October, short hair, wearing suspenders to keep my pants above my butt crack, changing my wardrobe to try and dress better, having more respect overall for the older lifestyles I once ignored, I don't have the Rolex, or the leather bag, but I am working on it.... I am not there yet, I still find some of the things to be "too expensive" but I can not judge others for buying these items, as I have never tried them... ie: Manchurian shave brushes and I was shocked to know how many people here actually own Rolex watches and $100,000 vehicles.... I grew up lower class, and I guess I am still considered that according to my budget... I work hard for my money, very hard as I am a welder, a hot and filthy job but it has allowed me to experience some better things in life!

I felt like investing in a Duke 2 was too much, but now I can see the difference in quality.

I do own a mason pearson comb, $20 for a comb? NONSENSE I would have said a few years ago, I'll stick with the $2 generic made in china comb, but now buying things like that, especially made in USA or anywhere but China (Switzerland for the MP)... My girlfriend spent $120 on a mason pearson popular boar brush, I would have probably had a stroke in the past but now I can somewhat see her desire for nicer things....

Martin De what? Candre? $65 for some shaving soap? That is ridiculous is what I thought when I first got into this... I got a sample from Garry, It's pretty incredible, and the simplicity of the ingredients allowed me to get rid of a lot of things I had been using before...

I attribute some of the latest change to this forum and reading other peoples stories and seeing their possessions, mostly just being a gentlemen, and trying to improve my appearance, not for others but for myself.....

I have no one person to thank up here, so thanks to everyone who takes the time to share on his forum.

It's late, I just felt like ranting a little bit...

goodnight B&B
 

Intrigued

Bigfoot & Bagel aficionado.
..........I have no one person to thank up here, so thanks to everyone who takes the time to share on his forum.

It's late, I just felt like rambling a little bit...

goodnight B&B


FTFY :wink2:


By the way, that was a very nice bit of rambling at that. :thumbup1:

Goodnight.
 

luvmysuper

My elbows leak
Staff member
Mark Twain is said to have opined “When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished by how much he'd learned in seven years.”

That strikes a chord with all of us only because we see ourselves reflected in that statement. We have all been in that position. It's a part of life and no schooling, instruction or warning could have prevented any of us from going through that phase of life.

It's grand that you have come to appreciate some of the "nicer" things, but you are who you are based on the sum total of your life, the advice, the lessons, the upbringing you received from family and friends (yes, friends help in our upbringing), the good experiences and even the horrible choices we have made. Some would argue that the bad choices often have more of an impact than the good ones.

While we are happy to see people mature and find the place they feel is important, let us not discount the fact that youth was designed for the very frivolous things that we shrug off as adults. Mind you, I'm not talking about things harmful to others, or dishonest or despicable undertakings. I'm talking about the normal process of experiences that we all face as young people. We all need a little sowing of a few wild oats.

In the quiet of the night before we drop off to sleep we sometimes smile and shake our heads in astonsishment at some of the silly, yet undeniably fun things we have done in our immortal youth.

Those are the roots that hold up the adult tree that we have become.
 

Doc4

Stumpy in cold weather
Staff member
so here I am, 28, about to be 29 in October, short hair, wearing suspenders to keep my pants above my butt crack, changing my wardrobe to try and dress better, having more respect overall for the older lifestyles I once ignored, I don't have the Rolex, or the leather bag, but I am working on it.... I am not there yet, I still find some of the things to be "too expensive" but I can not judge others for buying these items, as I have never tried them... ie: Manchurian shave brushes and I was shocked to know how many people here actually own Rolex watches and $100,000 vehicles.... I grew up lower class, and I guess I am still considered that according to my budget... I work hard for my money, very hard as I am a welder, a hot and filthy job but it has allowed me to experience some better things in life!

Congrats on noticing how much you have matured, and ... indeed ... on how much you have matured.

Don't worry about whether or not you own the expensive items ... seek out quality at any price level, and soon you will find ways to find quality without spending a lot of money. If you have no cash, but are wealthy in knowledge, attitude and friends ... you are indeed a wealthy man.





... but somehow I suspect you already knew that. :wink2:
 
Great post, thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. I'll be turning 58 in November, God willing and I'm still learning. One thing I've learned here on B&B is to plan, save & practice patience. I find if I'm not careful, I cave and buy the cheap thing now thinking it will do only discovering that it was junk. If I wait till the right thing comes along I end up with nicer things. Fewer, but nicer and more satisfying..
All The Best
 
I enjoyed reading your post.
People grow all the time. Sometimes for the good and sometimes not.

Sounds like you're doing well. :thumbup1:
 
Wow. I saw so much of myself in that post, it brought a tear to my eye. I just turned 29 on the 2nd and am in a very similar position, suspenders and all(I just bought a pair today on the way home from work.) I am a local truck driver, but have worked as a welder, too. This is very strange, yet comforting, to see another in the same stage of life.
 
In our teens, we have skulls full of mush. I've often said 24 is the age when an adult becomes mature. It's great to hear about your maturity and finding the finer things in life, on your way to no-limit living.
 
This also resonates with me!!! At 51 I look back and think, man I wish I had kept some of the stuff I threw out when I was young and bought up a bunch of stuff when it was pennies. But yes we are all maturing and changing all the time. As stated above you seem to becoming a well rounded man. Money does not buy you happiness!!! Thank you for your rambling I think we all enjoyed it!!!

Tom
 
Nice bit of personal reflection. I too found myself looking back on my last few years while sitting in my tree stand these last few weekends, seems to be the only place I can truly relax. I digress, it is always comforting to me to know of others living life much the same way I have.

No shipyards here but I have put in many hours in restaurant kitchens just to pay for going out for beers with the guys and picking up girls, and then barely scraping together rent and tuition. I too have found myself going after the better/little things that make my life enjoyable as of late. I am just biding time until I graduate college now but it is a humbling thing to look back and realize how far one has come.

Congratulations to you bud.
 
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