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Yanks27

Yanks27

Here's a thread to rant about your worst restaurant experience:

I went to a restaurant in Little Italy last night and had a great meal, Linguine with Clam sauce and Sausage & Broccoli Rabe Pizza from a wood burning oven. Everything was great. We had 3 pieces of pizza leftover (went with my wife, not my brother) and asked the waitress to wrap it up. She stacked the three slices on top of each (cheese to cheese) and wrapped it with aluminum foil (nothing between them). My wife went to complain and got a pizza box. The waitress gave her a box and said she usually doesn't give the box to anything but take outs.

I left a $2 tip on $45, which I've never done in my life.

This morning I got a fraud alert from the bank saying there were three charges on my credit card at 1:30-2:00 AM - A taxi ride and two purchases at a deli. Thank You Chase.

I'm going to go back to the restaurant later today and have a talk with the owner.
 
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These are the steps on how to be a good server in a restaurant:

1. Try to greet your table within 3-5 minutes. Try not to end up taking 8-10 minutes to greet a table, because that's when customers start to get irritated. If you do take longer than 5 minutes, do apologize.

2. Make sure customers have utensils. I can't count the times I've either had to get up to get my own utensils or had to asks my server for some. I've also have seen other customers and even my husband was brought food(which I didn't order any food that time) without any utensils.

3. Bring extra napkins always. MOST people, especially kids or if a person orders messy foods such as ribs, will more than likely need extra napkins.

4. Do ANY up selling BEFORE the customer orders, NOT AFTER the customer just placed their order. A couple of times I ordered a specific margarita they had on the menus at 2 different restaurants and those servers decided to try to sell me a different margarita AFTER I told them already what I actually wanted. That not only wasted their time, but irritated me.

5. Never bring ANY FOOD OR DRINKS to the table without knowing if the customer wants it, even if it's just water. Also, the server should ask if the customer wants lemon with their water. Some people may not want a slice of lemon. The server should ask or let the customer ask if they want a refill or anything for that matter. Some people like automatic refills, but I feel that a server can waste time at times getting things that the server isn't 100% sure that the customer actually wants a refill. I've declined refills before at times as well as changed the soft drinks I have ordered even. I am glad when servers ASK me instead of bringing something to the table that I didn’t order. I don't care if it's free bread or chips & salsa, NOTHING should be ordered for the customer and that even includes a glass of water. The customer is the person that is ordering, NOT the server.

6. Bring drinks that aren't from the bar out first if there are any. For instance, if a customer at the table orders a drink from the bar and everyone else at the table orders soft drinks or tea or water, don't make everyone at the table suffer by waiting until the drink from the bar is ready.

7. When customers are placing their order, WRITE their order down. Write down EVERY detail and repeat the order to the customer. Make sure you understand every detail like if they said "no tomatoes" and you may have thought they said "only tomatoes." I've had 2 times that 2 different servers at 2 different restaurants assumed I wanted bbq sauce "ON THE SIDE" meaning that I didn't want bbq sauce on my ribs I ordered, when I actually wanted "2 SIDES" of extra bbq sauce. So when taking a customer's order, MAKE DARN SURE that you get EXACTLY what they said. I NEVER said "on the side", but they ASSUMED that, even though one of those times I remember I said "2 sides of "EXTRA" bbq sauce." I also NEVER said I wanted the ribs dry either. They just ASSUMED that. When in doubt, ASK or ASK them to repeat their order.

8. Don't EVER come back to the table after you have left to ask the customer to repeat their order! That's an interruption that's truly not necessary. Now if they are out of something or there's a problem with what someone ordered, that's completely different. I am talking about servers who don't write down orders or servers who didn't fully write down the order or get the entire order written correctly the FIRST TIME AROUND as they should have. For instance, I ordered a margarita with salt one time and the waiter came back to my table to ask if I wanted salt. He should have gotten it correct the FIRST time around. I also had a waitress one time ask "Did you say mudslide or a white russian?" I ordered a white russian, not a mudslide. My point is, points off the tip when I have to be interrupted for a server not getting all the details right the FIRST TIME AROUND. I understand if I have to repeat my order while they are initially taking my order, but to come to ask me AFTER they have already left the table is just not good service. As I said before, if they are out of something or there's no way to make a certain thing the way the customer wants it, that's understandable to have to come back to the table, but don't just come back to the table because you didn't get the ALL the details the first time around.

9. Know the menu. If I ask what comes in a side salad because of the fact that usually for some reason, a lot of menus don't list what comes in, don't tell me you don't know or need to ask someone UNLESS it is like your first day or something.

10. NEVER "ASSUME" ANYTHING, EVER! For example: My husband and I ordered 2 appetizers as well as 2 entrees at a restaurant. I didn't want what he wanted and he didn't want what I wanted, so that's why we ordered 2. We figured we could take the food home if we had too much. The waiter ASSUMED I wanted the appetizer with my meal. For starters, I NEVER ONCE said that. Also, I should assume that since the menu states it's an appetizer, that I would get it as an appetizer unless I state otherwise. We were waiting quite a while when the waiter came around and we asked where my chili cheese fries were. Our waiter replied "I thought you wanted it with your meal." I told him "I never said that." I was SOME PISSED that he "ASSUMED" we were going to "share" the first appetizer. Anyway, I received it 2 minutes literally before our entrees came out.

11. If someone wants a 2 for 1 drink "ONE at a time" respect that and only bring out one at a time. Also, ASK if the customer would like the drinks one at a time, which you might be surpised they MIGHT just want it one at a time due to ice making the drink watered down or maybe they might not want the second one.

12. Immediately put the order into the computer RIGHT AFTER you take the order unless there are food or drink orders that were ordered before the customers that you just got the order from that are ready, then obviously, bring those customers their food and/or drinks they ordered first, then put the order into the computer.

13. Servers should bring ALL condiments BEFORE the food is arrived. There is NEVER a reason to trust another server that ends up bringing out the food. If you want a good tip, make sure what that the things that are truly IN YOUR CONTROL will be correct at the very least. I have had 5 servers VOLUNTEER(meaning I didn't ask them to do that) to bring my condiments BEFORE my meal arrived whether or not they actually took my food to me. If someone orders a side of ranch, there's NO REAL REASON to wait all the way until the food is ready to bring it out which is usually around 25mins or so, when ranch doesn't need ANY cooking. Same thing with other condiments like mayo or mustard.

14. Make sure you are bringing enough of what the customer has asked for. My husband asked for ketchup and the waitress brought out an almost empty bottle, not enough for him to even get much out. Also, if someone asks for a "SIDE" of something, bring a "FULL" side, NOT "a HALF side." It's ridiculous that now I am having to tell my server, "Fill it all the way." I think that's just ridiculous. If I ask for a "side", I want a FULL SIDE. Especially if I asks for 2 sides of mayo, don't bring me 2 "half-sides" of mayo, because then it's like only having ONE side of mayo, so then you have to make another trip to get another side of mayo as I specifically ordered it. It's not like the server can't SEE that it's not full. Bring customers enough condiments so you WON'T have to make extra trips. Do you honestly care about the pennies it cost the restaurant to maybe give too much or do you care about your tips? I think a customer would rather have more than enough, than not enough, wouldn't you?

15. When the food is ready, if the same server takes the food to the customer that took the order, that server should be comparing the plate of food with the written order to see obvious mistakes such as a wrong side dish, a wrong entree, missing things, or anything that's obvious like a grilled chicken dish that's supposed to have swiss cheese(yellow) has bright orange cheddar cheese.

16. Make sure when you bring out someone's food that the item has the condiments that are listed on the menu unless told by the customer that they didn't want the condiments that come with the meal. I have had servers assume just because I ordered a side of ranch, I didn't want the marinara as well with cheese sticks. I don't get that, because they didn't even consider that since usually appetizers are shared, that just maybe the other person at the table might like the sauce that COMES with the item and the other person wants the other sauce. We both happen to like both sauces and dip them in both.

Also, I've had times when the condiments that were supposed to come with the food according to the MENU, weren't on the plate, meaning the server didn't verify the food they were taking to me with the menu. Like at Denny's, my husband ordered cheese fries as his appetizer and the ranch that was listed it came with and even had a picture of it, wasn't on the plate from our server when it arrived. I feel, how STUPID is it not to even realize something is MISSING and still take it to the customer like that considering they have it in a PICTURE as well as listed in the menu description. I feel if you don't know the menu, at least take a menu and verify the food BEFORE taking it to the customer.

17. If you run someone else's food and get a request for something such as a refill, please tell their server or even go get the refill. I have had some good and bad luck when I've done this. If my server is not around and if I want a refill, I will ask whomever comes to the table, considering they ARE a "SOME PART" of MY service. Sometimes those other servers worked as a TEAM by actually getting the refill for me, one time a server lied to me, and another one said something about that my server will get it, which she DIDN'T relay the message. The point of this one, WORK AS A TEAM, because it will come back to you. If you help out this other customer's table you don't have, but then another server helps you out with a customer's table you DO have, it truly all works out. No one seems to want to work as a team anymore these days. The people that do, are hard to find.

Also if there is a mistake that can be caught by this other server such as a missing item or wrong food, this other server should be the one to fix the situation to make it right, NOT make the customer wait longer to get our server to fix it. I don't get why MY server usually is the one that gets the forgotten condiments when another server brings out my food without the condiments I ordered. I feel WHY have another server run the food if they aren't going to verify the ticket with the plate of food? It's useless to have a food runner system if the other server doesn't verify what they are taking to the table is correct even. I am ONLY talking about things that are obvious that are wrong. Sure my server could be at fault for not putting in the order correctly to begin with, but I am willing to bet more than likely, it's the other server that's too lazy to read the ticket.

18. Check back with your customers once ANY food has arrived if someone else ran your food, because they may have a mistake that was not noticed at the time the food was ran, so no one was told about the mistake. It's important to check back with your customers to make sure the customers are happy with their food. It's not just mistakes that could be a problem, it could also be the food is cold or some type of other problem. If you don't check back with your customers, you won't know if something is wrong or not. Also, ask if they need anything. They might need something they didn't think of such as A-1 steak sauce or a refill.

19. If a mistake is made of any kind, apologize. I can't count HOW MANY TIMES I NEVER get an apology. I am not mean, I just tell them "I ordered such-n-such." At the VERY LEAST, say you are sorry. It's the RIGHT THING to do. It may even boost your tip such as when I have had apologies, that I tipped higher all because they were NICE about it.

20. If a mistake is made that's major such as a wrong entree or an overcharge, have the decency to TELL YOUR MANAGER! I can't count the times I didn't get a visit from a manager when MAJOR mess ups have happened. Also, if it's YOU who made the mess up, YOU try to make-up for it by asking the manager if he or she could comp something. Also, a major mess up should come with a PROFUSE apology such as "I am SO sorry." Not just a lousy "sorry" when the mistake is huge.

21. If you are server running someone else's food and there's a mistake of some sort, APOLOGIZE, even if it's might not be "YOUR" fault. Customers do usually want to hear an apology when something goes wrong. It IS the NICE thing to do.

22. If you ask the customer if they want something and they say "NO", DO NOT try to change their mind. I can't tell you how aggravating it is to have to almost argue with the server to get them to understand I don't want a dessert this time or whatever it is. If they say "NO", they MEAN IT!

23. Make sure there are NO overcharges or undercharges on the check and that it is indeed THAT customer's check. I have had prices that didn't match the menu. I have also had a server charge me for a salad without an entree, even though I got an entree. So make sure you press the correct button. My husband and I have had our credit cards rung up on the wrong table. We have been given the wrong check before. We have had extra items as well as missing items on the check. I also had substituted a cheddar cheese on a sandwich that came with swiss cheese, but was charged extra as if I was adding cheese to the sandwich. That time I also didn't get charged for a margarita that was almost $7. So not only did I have an overcharge, but also an undercharge in the same check. That just shows how some servers don't look over their work.

24. NEVER, EVER, bring the check without either being asked or asking. I have ordered a mixed drink AFTER a dessert at times. I truly HATE when servers bring the check along with the dessert as if they can read my mind or something. It's NOT their call to make if I am ready for the check or not, it's MINE. You NEVER KNOW, maybe the customer wants to order something else. I just had a waitress last night bring us the check just because we asked for boxes. She didn't even offer us dessert, which I actually wanted to order another mixed drink, but at the time I asked for the boxes, I still was drinking my margarita I had ordered beforehand, so I wasn't quite ready for the next drink yet, nor did I even decide what drink I wanted.

25. Do things in the order of it being requested. If I just asked for the check, get the check unless someone's food or drink is ready that had ordered BEFORE I did. Don't go to 2 other customer's tables to find out if they need anything. That's just RUDE! People usually want to leave when they ask for the check, so be CONSIDERATE not to WASTE ANY of their time by getting the check as soon as possible unless someone's food or drink is ready that had asked for their stuff BEFORE I did.

26. Ring up the check within a 3 minute range at the MOST. Don't make the customers wait 5 minutes or more to be able to leave.

27. Give ALL change back, even if it's just a penny unless the customer TELLS you to keep the change. NEVER just not return someone's change or ask if they want change. Always give back change unless the customer tells you to keep the change, because they haven't tipped you yet. One waiter one time kept 31 cents change and only gave me back a 5 dollar bill from a check that was $34.69 that I paid with (2) 20 dollar gift certificates . I found that to be presumptuous of him. It WASN'T "HIS" money YET, it was my money. Instead of $4.50 we were going to leave, because his service wasn't so great, he got stiffed all because he STOLE from us. He had NO RIGHTS to that money yet
 
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Keep it up. Nobody likes a joke more than a guy stuck with a custom title for 30 days while planning his next rampage.:biggrin1:
 
njpaddy

njpaddy

Never use a credit card at a restaurant or gas station. We don't eat out that often, but after being w/o power for 8 days my wife and I went to Red Robin last week. Unfortunately while they had power, they were under a boil water advisory which meant plastic utensils, no coffee, Winter Lager in a paper cup for me (UGH) and canned diet soda for my wife. My wrap was a bit hard but still edible. My wife said her burger was good. The waitress was pleasant and apologetic and the place was near empty so I left her a $10 tip on a $30 tab. It was more than I usually leave, but I figured she needed it more than me since she was out of work for days because of the storm.
 
Alacrity59

Alacrity59

Wanting for wisdom
The two worst experiences I've had in decent places were cases where I was in a group of 5 or 6 and someone's entree was just downright forgotten. I don't know if there is a way for a restaurant to recover from this. Everybody kinda waits for the last person's entree to arrive . . . meanwhile theirs is getting cold. Just a bad situation.
 
orchestrion

orchestrion

Mine came just this past summer. I spent the summer working out in New Mexico. I also turned 21 this summer and I still had a "vertical" driver's license due to the fact that I was underage when I left home for the summer. The license wasn't expired, but the server at the restaurant refused to take my vertical ID even though I had been 21 for about a week. My friends I was with (all of us were ordering beers) politely asked why he would accept theirs but not mine. He responded "It's probably fake so I'm not even going to look at it." I got up and walked five feet to the bar and ordered what I wanted without any problems whatsoever. The only time in my life I've never left a tip.
 
Prince

Prince

Love the Springs1 reference. My worst experience involved a waitress who didn't know what service meant. Left a $4 tip on an $80 meal. I told the manager if she couldn't figure out why that's all she got, then maybe she's in the wrong business.
 
JoshuaNY

JoshuaNY

Yanks27 said:
Here's a thread to rant about your worst restaurant experience:

I went to a restaurant in Little Italy last night and had a great meal, Linguine with Clam sauce and Sausage & Broccoli Rabe Pizza from a wood burning oven. Everything was great. We had 3 pieces of pizza leftover (went with my wife, not my brother) and asked the waitress to wrap it up. She stacked the three slices on top of each (cheese to cheese) and wrapped it with aluminum foil (nothing between them). My wife went to complain and got a pizza box. The waitress gave her a box and said she usually doesn't give the box to anything but take outs.

I left a $2 tip on $45, which I've never done in my life.

This morning I got a fraud alert from the bank saying there were three charges on my credit card at 1:30-2:00 AM - A taxi ride and two purchases at a deli. Thank You Chase.

I'm going to go back to the restaurant later today and have a talk with the owner.
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She must have been pissed at her tip and took your credit card number for a joy ride after work :001_cool: Glad chase let you know.
 
Edcculus

Edcculus

I can't say I've really had a bad experience. Maybe slow service when a restaurant is busy. Usually 'on par' with the type of restaurant I'm visiting. If its a chain, I don't expect top noch service. If I'm paying $50 a plate, cocktails before dinner, wine, dessert etc, I expect superb service and tip well.

Yanks27 - I don't want to accuse you of being a Springs1...but you are being a Springs1 (except for the waitress stealing your CC#). Aside from that, you were in the wrong. Its normal for restaurants to wrap leftovers in foil. Boxes are expensive. You may argue that its just 1 box for me, but what about all those other people that just want 1 box too? That adds up. I'm friends with a guy who is the chef/owner of a small very nice Italian restaurant who complains about this all the time. He is VERY Italian, and I've seen him get angry at his waitstaff for using boxes instead of foil.

You were in the wrong and were being an ***. She had no right to steal your CC#, but hey, you were being an *** and stiffed here of her tip. The encounter you describe IMO in no way deserves a $2 tip on $45.
 
Yanks27

Yanks27

Edcculus said:
Yanks27 - I don't want to accuse you of being a Springs1...but you are being a Springs1 (except for the waitress stealing your CC#). Aside from that, you were in the wrong. Its normal for restaurants to wrap leftovers in foil. Boxes are expensive. You may argue that its just 1 box for me, but what about all those other people that just want 1 box too? That adds up. I'm friends with a guy who is the chef/owner of a small very nice Italian restaurant who complains about this all the time. He is VERY Italian, and I've seen him get angry at his waitstaff for using boxes instead of foil.

You were in the wrong and were being an ***. She had no right to steal your CC#, but hey, you were being an *** and stiffed here of her tip. The encounter you describe IMO in no way deserves a $2 tip on $45.
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I thought of that as well (owner doesn't want to spend the money on boxes), but on the way out I spoke to a different waiter and he said that always gives a box to his customer. Also, if that was the case, maybe she should have put wax paper between the slices? She should also shouldn't have put two slices together, cheese side to chesse side.

I've owned restaurants and have also been a waiter, so I'm as sympathetic as they get.
 
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