OldSaw
The wife's investment
So, I will preface my response with some background about me. I am a healthcare "suit", I manage 7 pediatric surgeons, I set the fees for the practice, I am 26 (so not much living history), I have two Master's degrees in Health Administration, and I have this discussion a LOT.
This mess is best answered by a complex visual diagram, but I do not have one of those in B&B so I will try to provide my opinion as best I can...
One question: Where is this mythical land of "usual and customary charges?" Is there such a place that actually exists, because I would like to move there and never again be charged the mystery fees for exceeding "usual and customary charges" again.