1) Alum, only if needed. Very rarely used.
2) Balm, or aftershave lotion, or neither. Never both.
3) EdT occasionally, but not if anything else I'd used is scented.
1. rinse with very warm water
2. use a styptic pencil if needed
3. rinse with cold water
4. wait 5 mins
5. apply aftershave
6. before going to bed (about 3 hrs after shaving apply aftershave balm
No. I don't wash it off. Why would I? It is a fantastically effective antibacterial substance.
I also use it as a deoderant immediately after a shower. It is effective because...well, underarm odor comes from the...er...excrement, shall we say...of bacteria. Alum creates an environment in which bacteria simply cannot exist. That's why it is a good deodorant. Why would I wash that off?
Afterwards comes the Afta balm. Then, maybe, a splash.