I've had a Saturday morning doubles game (tennis) for a couple of years now, and we all enjoy it a lot. It's a great way to start off the weekend. This year, one of our regulars retired from the game, and another one had too many personal commitments, so we had to get 2 replacements (we rotate 5 guys for the 4 spots, because there is always someone who can't make it.) We got a duo from another club who are well-matched to us skill-wise, but a personality clash has developed, and may soon get out of hand. One of the guys is great -- a real gentleman. The other one is just a loud-mouthed, annoying putz. At first he was on his good behavior, but as he's gotten more comfortable, I suppose his true personality has started to come out, and that's not a good thing. He's constantly complimenting himself (but no one else), talking trash, even purposely making bad calls just to make things happen (he's actually admitted this), and generally being an unpleasant distraction. He's paid for his season in full, so there's nothing I can do to kick him out, even though I am the "captain" of the foursome (just trust me, it doesn't work that way -- I would if I could). We've tried telling him, but it doesn't help (that's what makes him an obnoxious jerk). I can get rid of him next year, but I think we're stuck with him for this year. Quitting is not an option for me either -- it's hard to find a competitive indoor game for the winter at the early hour I like to play, and I would likely have to forfeit my substantial dues if I just walked out on the game.
I know better than to expect a real answer, but I simply don't know what to do. I'm really just blowing off steam (I started thinking about it again this afternoon and I've gotten myself all worked up over it). Anyway, thanks for letting me vent.
I know better than to expect a real answer, but I simply don't know what to do. I'm really just blowing off steam (I started thinking about it again this afternoon and I've gotten myself all worked up over it). Anyway, thanks for letting me vent.