I've been smoking for close to 40 years now. I'm now down to about 2 packs a week, since I can't smoke at work, and I can't smoke at home, and I can't smoke in stores, and I can't smoke in bars. That leaves me my car as the only domain where I can indulge myself.
I'd llike to quit, purely for economic reasons. Even the one carton I buy a month is putting a strain on my budget, and even for that, I buy them in the next state over to save about $20 in taxes.
One product I've used successfully in the past is Zerosmoke. Its a tiny, but powerful magnet that you wear on your ear for up to 8 hours at a time. Don't ask me to explain how it works, but it does. Its like Acupuncture, with magnets instead of pins. The urge it smoke is greatly reduced. Unfortunately, I lost the magnets when I moved. I've been lazy about getting another set, as they are expensive ($35,) but granted, its about the same as 3 weeks worh of cigarettes.
When I go out to a nightclub, I do not smoke from the time I take a shower at home until I'm driving home from the club. I go about 4~6 hours without a cigarette, and I don't miss it at all.
Likewise, when I'm working, I can go all day without the urge for a cigarette. I do light up when I go out to my car for breaks, but there, my motivation is to get away from the job for a few minutes and enjoy some peace and quiet, rather than heading out for a smoke break.
But, you were asking about your girlfriend's smoking. You know her better than we do, so you'll have to figure out the best way to motivate her. Don't nag her about it. Don't make her feel like a loser or that she lacks discipline. Use positive reinforcement instead ... "If you can go the next 8 hours without a cigarette, I'll take you to our favorite Sushi restaurant."
I'd llike to quit, purely for economic reasons. Even the one carton I buy a month is putting a strain on my budget, and even for that, I buy them in the next state over to save about $20 in taxes.
One product I've used successfully in the past is Zerosmoke. Its a tiny, but powerful magnet that you wear on your ear for up to 8 hours at a time. Don't ask me to explain how it works, but it does. Its like Acupuncture, with magnets instead of pins. The urge it smoke is greatly reduced. Unfortunately, I lost the magnets when I moved. I've been lazy about getting another set, as they are expensive ($35,) but granted, its about the same as 3 weeks worh of cigarettes.
When I go out to a nightclub, I do not smoke from the time I take a shower at home until I'm driving home from the club. I go about 4~6 hours without a cigarette, and I don't miss it at all.
Likewise, when I'm working, I can go all day without the urge for a cigarette. I do light up when I go out to my car for breaks, but there, my motivation is to get away from the job for a few minutes and enjoy some peace and quiet, rather than heading out for a smoke break.
But, you were asking about your girlfriend's smoking. You know her better than we do, so you'll have to figure out the best way to motivate her. Don't nag her about it. Don't make her feel like a loser or that she lacks discipline. Use positive reinforcement instead ... "If you can go the next 8 hours without a cigarette, I'll take you to our favorite Sushi restaurant."
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