This is going to seem pretty simple, but maybe theres a few guys out there who haven't thought of this yet! I shave my head AND face every single morning and heres my routine. I let my brush soak while I do a few splashes of warm water on my head and face. Then I make my lather, and lather up my head AND face at the same time. My head doesen't require much prep because the hair isn't nearly as thick and coarse as it is on my face. Needless to say while I'm shaving my head the lather on my face is just sitting there preparing my steel beard to be shaved! It takes a solid 5 minutes to shave my head, so thats plenty of beard softening...at least for me! Enjoy!