Very eloquently putIt just takes time and trying many different scents. If you can pick products that are simpler rather than complex compositions- vetiver, vanilla, tonka, oud, florals, etc...thats how I've learned the most. On the flip side are the artisan products that transport you into a different frame of mind- like a dusty cowboy riding a sweaty horse on some Wyoming ranch- these are the the soap whores you pay a fortune to spend the night with only to forget about them forever after a couple days. Yes, they're alot of fun, but try to refrain from buying too many or you'll end up with a pile of tubs and splashes collecting dust. Everyone has different tastes, I'm just explaining my own.