Im 54 and growing beard and mustache for first time. About 1 1/2 months of decent growth. Trying to make sense of how to care for beard after reading what seems like many different opinions on the subject. Wash: 3-5 times a week? What about skin underneath on non-wash days? After a workout? I have a good beard bar soap. Conditioner: how many times a week? In shower or use oil/balm or both? Only after wash? I have a good beard oil and balm, but don't have beard shower conditioner. Moisturizer: apply lotion after each wash? I have been using Lubriderm and then using oil and or balm on top of that after each wash. Beard doesn't seem very soft. Any help would be GREATLY appreciated!