Yep I have it very similar to CCS. We respect each other and ofc big purchases are mutual decision but other then that my money are mine and her money are hers.Married 43 years and that's been my take on things from day one and long before. Save for large purchases where we need some common ground, she buys what she wants, I buy what I want. Money hasn't been an issue for us. She had a career, I had a career. We have joint accounts and, obviously, separate retirement accounts. Life is so much easier for us than so many who live lives of quiet desperation doing what they're told by outsiders and wokeism.