It sounds to me that you are honing it like i would hone a knife. If you have a good feel for how the edge develops by doing it this way just continue. I would stick to only edge leading strokes and check if the edge is set by using suitable test.I raise the burr by doing up and Down strokes with the razor on one side. I detect the burr by sliding my finger on the edge, away from the spine. I make sure I feel it along the whole edge.
Creating and feeling for the burr, like i think you are referring to sounds aggressive for a razor.
up and down strokes? You might be removing more material on the back stroke closer to the bevel shoulder then closer to the edge. If you are not controlling the pressure properly you will just create a big burr. When that burr brakes off you might be left with a less then optimal starting point for your next stone in your progression to refine.