One last thing I just read that you use an R41. This is a very controversial razor where many people report feelings of tugging and roughness(me as well, although way less now after i discovered my soapy water technique) . I highly recommend a FATIP open comb or RAZOROCK GAMECHANGER. 84p (Best razor I ever bought).Some great advice. Thank you. I will try that and see what happens. I have wondered if the hard water effects the lather, but I can make good lathers.
I find that due to my facial hair been tough, I do a 4,5 pass shave then touch up.
Strangely, I find I am now leaving a 2day gap between shaves so my hair is longer and get a better cut.
Thank you for your suggestions. I am definitely going to try it out.