I typically use American Crew Fiber or KMS molding paste since I have thick but short hair (3-4 inches) that tends to stick up in parts if I don't use product. I don't like oily products because my hair gets oily enough on its own. I have been reading through the threads and read about pomades but I thought I would need more of paste or wax. Are they all the same thing? What would you recommend that doesn't make your hair look or feel greasy? Typically gels are unable to keep my hair set for long periods of time. Although, I have used Charlie Dapper's gel product which did work but I also used some of their pomade along with it. Thanks in advance for any recommendations.