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Of course, if your nickname is the schnozz, this may not be the cheapest route.
Tell me about it.
Of course, if your nickname is the schnozz, this may not be the cheapest route.
And... you could try talking to her parents about your plans. There could be some wisdom there.
Stupid isn't it!
Zack, just buy her one as cheap as you can get away with. There are lots of reasons for that. Also, if she wants a full blown blow-out type of Wedding,
let her Dad foot the bill. You should not be reasonable (besides the cheap ring) for no more than it'd cost for her to drag you down to the Justice of the Peace for an official "state sanctioned" marriage....
Just mho, based on several wive's.....
LOL, the cheapest ring possible is in lline with the old saying :
" a diamond is forever (& it's hers), a marriage is not...."
Not really how I would view entering into marriege...Just mho, based on several wive's.....
LOL, the cheapest ring possible is in lline with the old saying :
" a diamond is forever (& it's hers), a marriage is not...."
TEHO I guess...technically diamonds appreciate, not depreciate though. My wife and I both like jewelry, so I did buy her something very nice. BTW, no H2 with spinners here and don't regret the purchase at all.thank goodness, the voice of reason chimed in..
Gosh fellas. I have never heard so many men in one place on that side of the discussion. A big ring is a big ring. I am all for romance and whatnot, but that 3 month or heck even two month idea is a deBeer's marketing ploy. The best way to sour a marriage is to get into financial hardship. I can think of no easier way than to purchase a depreciating liability like a $12,000+ ring. Like the guy driving around in an H2 with spinning rims, its pure fluff, and pricey fluff. I think your best bet is a non traditional one if possible to go on a trip to a gem producing/trading country, and get the ring there, on a two week vacation. That would be a memorable and much nicer way of getting a) an affordable ring b) a vacation, and you could do it for way cheaper. Go to South East Asia, if you feel adventurous. Thailand/Myanmar has some great gems. If you like Europe, go for a week to Amsterdam. Buy a .5 carat, or a .3.. get a good one, not a big one. Whatever you can afford, but make it worth while, not just big and pricey. When the kids start coming in and you are in a huge mortgage, you will look at that ring and think, "that was one great trip", not "that damn thing is killing me"...
I've got a question, when engagement ring shopping, how much price negotiation is appropriate? I've been looking at Tiffany's, is it appropriate to haggle over an engagement ring price there? I've never bought any very expensive jewelry before.
thank goodness, the voice of reason chimed in..
Gosh fellas. I have never heard so many men in one place on that side of the discussion. A big ring is a big ring. I am all for romance and whatnot, but that 3 month or heck even two month idea is a deBeer's marketing ploy. The best way to sour a marriage is to get into financial hardship. I can think of no easier way than to purchase a depreciating liability like a $12,000+ ring. Like the guy driving around in an H2 with spinning rims, its pure fluff, and pricey fluff. I think your best bet is a non traditional one if possible to go on a trip to a gem producing/trading country, and get the ring there, on a two week vacation. That would be a memorable and much nicer way of getting a) an affordable ring b) a vacation, and you could do it for way cheaper. Go to South East Asia, if you feel adventurous. Thailand/Myanmar has some great gems. If you like Europe, go for a week to Amsterdam. Buy a .5 carat, or a .3.. get a good one, not a big one. Whatever you can afford, but make it worth while, not just big and pricey. When the kids start coming in and you are in a huge mortgage, you will look at that ring and think, "that was one great trip", not "that damn thing is killing me"...
I've got a question, when engagement ring shopping, how much price negotiation is appropriate? I've been looking at Tiffany's, is it appropriate to haggle over an engagement ring price there? I've never bought any very expensive jewelry before.
This quuuestion I very much want an answer to ... hopefully soon ... not that there's any particular reason, mind you, just some ... er ... urgent general interest ... yeah, that's it ...
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This question I very much want an answer to ... hopefully soon ... not that there's any particular reason, mind you, just some ... er ... urgent general interest ... yeah, that's it ...
Thanks, I didn't notice that my keyboard got stuck when I was typing out the word 'question' ...
TEHO I guess...technically diamonds appreciate, not depreciate though. My wife and I both like jewelry, so I did buy her something very nice. BTW, no H2 with spinners here and don't regret the purchase at all.
I don't think that Tiffany would be the type of establishment to haggle, but would be curious if others know differently.
Bang-on with the advice about financial hardship hurting a marriage! (And the Wife grumbling to herself that her Hubby went cheap-o on the ring won't exactly be a "Goot Thing" though ... )
Saving money by taking a holiday to Thailand? (I'd be worried about getting shafted in an unregulated third-world market where you don't have any easy recouse if months later you find out you've been sold a Sow's Ear that you were told was a Silk Purse ... your local reputable jeweler won't (hopefully) screw you over and if he does or makes a mistake you can sue his @$$ with relative ease and with a good chance of actually collecting if ... er ... when you win.) But it certainly would make for a memorable ring-buying experience!
What's a solitaire?
A single stone.