The first rule seems to be there aren't any. Kids these days are raised in a fantasy world where they can do pretty much whatever they want and there are seldom any consequences. Kind of like the real world only the exact opposite. Even worse, parents who impose consequences and make real attempts to teach their children right from wrong run the risk of run ins with the law.
My generation and every generation prior grew up with the old addage that "life is hard to begin with and even harder if you like to be stupid". Most folks 40+ grew up in an environment where every bad decision and every breech of acceptable public conduct produced results that were just not all that pleasant. Parents now a days feel it their responsibility to make sure that their kids are happy all the time, never uncomfortable and never held accountable for anything. Unfortunately that results in grown ups that are completely clueless and have no idea how to function in the real world where certain things aren't alright and discomfort and unhappiness are occassionally inevitable.
On a happier note, I'm just back from a lovely anniversary dinner with the fetching Mrs. GI. Twenty six years ago today we were married. Through thick, thin, and flush we've managed. More importantly I think I probably love her more now than I did back then. Watched the sunset on the beach while enjoying cocktails and some oysters. Then a lovely dinner and some live music, very nice indeed.
My generation and every generation prior grew up with the old addage that "life is hard to begin with and even harder if you like to be stupid". Most folks 40+ grew up in an environment where every bad decision and every breech of acceptable public conduct produced results that were just not all that pleasant. Parents now a days feel it their responsibility to make sure that their kids are happy all the time, never uncomfortable and never held accountable for anything. Unfortunately that results in grown ups that are completely clueless and have no idea how to function in the real world where certain things aren't alright and discomfort and unhappiness are occassionally inevitable.
On a happier note, I'm just back from a lovely anniversary dinner with the fetching Mrs. GI. Twenty six years ago today we were married. Through thick, thin, and flush we've managed. More importantly I think I probably love her more now than I did back then. Watched the sunset on the beach while enjoying cocktails and some oysters. Then a lovely dinner and some live music, very nice indeed.