I just stopped going. Like most organized clubs or groups that I've tried, all the aficionados ruin it for the average player who is just seeking an extra activity in their lives. The seem to thrive on making sure everyone knows that they're experts and they'll show ya how to become a real killer, a shark, if you pay close enough attention. Lame. Ya can always tell when people are trying to help others improve vs. when it's really all about them, their ego, and their superman capes.