Oh, if he was like a lot of the folks I treated, he was a different soul with family not around. He may have been a "character" that the nurses loved to give and take with!
Lol, my dad was probably my age when he told me he couldn't wait to get old so he could say whatever the heck he pleased.
He ended up spending the last year or so of his life in the facility I worked at. I obviously was never his nurse, but all the aides and his nurses loved him. He was an ornery old cuss, but ALWAYS a gentleman, if that makes any sense. That greatest generation was just made like that.
I suspect that if the Creator chooses to use you as a member of the few old men that make it to a "rest home" that you will be one that they fight over to care for.
Hah! I don't know if they'll be fighting to care for me. I don't think I'm all that engaging but who knows what another 20 years will do.