My eldest stepdaughter is getting married in March. She has turned down all of my bow tie selections so far. She gave me this piece of a swatch and wants this color, either solid or in the pattern. Please offer me your suggestions. I prefer self tie, but at this stage I’ll settle for a pre-tied model if she approves. Also, cost is a minimal factor since I already have my bespoke suit from the last child’s wedding. Thanks in advance!