I've been practicing for 13 years. Nothing formal, just trying to live my life a certain way.
With all due respect, please note my previous use of bolds to preface or quotes to surround buddhism or buddhist.I've simply got to weigh in here. This thread is a perfect example of well-meaning Westerners unintentionally tearing Buddhism to shreds. About half of what I've read is simply wrong, and 30% misleading.
One cannot be a practicing Catholic, Jew or Muslim and be a Buddhist. Possibly a Jain.
Buddhism is a religion. A development/offshoot of Hinduism. There are several different definitions of The Buddha, which ostensibly led to the distinctions of Theravada/Mahayana etc.
Buddhism does not accept the notion of God, but does accept the existence of Gods, although they are rarely prayed to. Ganesh ws supposedly taught some things by Milarepa
Tibetan Buddhist "gods" are not gods as such, but a sophisticated form of mnemonic.
While this may be the case, many, if not quite all Tibetans and other nationalities do propitiate and supplicate these entities, such as Chenrezig, in exactly the same manner as Hindus.
That should do for now
Buddhism has primarily been a religion in which monasticism is seen as the norm. I have never read anything from the perspective of marriage in any of the translations of original canonical works I'm familiar with.
I appreciate your well written and thoughtful responses. I suspect we would be in agreement on substantially more issues related to the dharma than we might disagree on.I re-iterate the quoted post.
The Buddha re-invented philosophical thought and spawned one of The Great World Religions, engaging some of the most brilliant minds in history to their fullest extent over centuries. It is also responsible for a tradition of esoteric practice which strains body, mind and reason to the limit and at times beyond. Belief in The Buddha's teachings as coming from an utterly unique personage is an intergal part of the process, as is Faith & Trust in the Guru & Method and an acceptance of a vast and comprehensive system of ethics, ritual and salvific practice. There is nothing substantively different from Buddhism as a social or cultural phenomemon compared to any other Great Religion, despite some fundamental differences in doctrine.
It is simply not possible to undergo the training and discipline which was commonplace in Tibet and other places without an iron consitution and implicit faith in their correctness and efficacy.
There might have been great strides in bringing The Dharma to The West in the last 50 years or so, but most people have no idea just how much effort is required to get to the stage where you can be legitimately called a Lama/Guru.
As H.H. Tai Situpa once said. "Buddhism is not pick and mix"
Buddhism is as close as I've ever come to identifying with a "religion," as it were, but I just can't go the extra step in calling myself a practitioner. But to address some of the questions in this thread, the Buddha never intended it to become a religion. It became one as it spread and changed after his death. And as Thich Nhat Hanh says, the Buddha would be the first to say "Don't call me a god. I'm a man just like you." But of course, he wasn't just another man. He demonstrated profound insights that changed the world. And he did not try to force it on anyone or give anyone an ultimatum, saying instead in effect "Try it out for yourself and make your decision with your own reason." That is so refreshing compared to Western thought. That is what originally appealed to me, because it's about looking within to find the answers, rather than looking outward to a deity for salvation.
But as a person living in the West, in today's world, attachment is inevitable. So I'm constantly struggling with how I should go about looking at karma. The Bhagavad Gita's definition of Karma yoga makes a lot of sense for the modern, working person. So already a bit of Hindu thought creeps into my belief system, as well as other things. Hence I doubt I can ever completely give myself over to Buddhist thought.
If everyone had subscribed to the core Buddhist beliefs of finding spirital peace from within and minimizing desire beyond what is necessary for survival, there would be no war, persecution, racism, exploitation, obesity and hatred in the world.
The same can be said for the core Christian beliefs.
It seems that this thread has become much more contentious than I intended it to be. Ironic, considering the subject matter.
The same can be said for the core Christian beliefs.
It's kinda funny how things like this happen...