It’s the difference between living in the sticks and living in the city.It would seem to me, a state as big and wide as Texas, wouldn't be so cramped with folk?
When my wife was growing up she and her family would only come to McAllen (60 miles) once a month for groceries.
Now there is an HEB and a Walmart in the “big” town 25 miles from them.
McAllen prolly has 100,000 residents but on the weekends it has the traffic of a city of 300,000 or more.
It is faster for me to drive the 35 miles from my parents home to my duty station than it is for me to drive from the North side of McAllen at about 15 miles. We get off at 4 and drive to get our youngest in North McAllen and then drive to our home in Mission. It’s usually 5:30 or 6 by the time we get home.
Now at the ranch it’s peaceful and quiet but 2 hours to a hospital and 45 minutes to a real grocery store. Traffic is limited to Ranchers, DPS, Border Patrol, Game Wardens, Illegals, and smugglers.