Well, that has improved from the Army's attitude in 1918 ...
"your relative's corpse was last seen sinking into the mud in Flanders somewhere. We can loan you a shovel if you want to go look for him."
"They take you over to Field 13
Where the sun is shinning
And the grass is green
And they throw in dirt
And they throw in rocks
And they don't give a ****
If they break your pine box."
BTW, you comment is interesting because it reminds me of various family members instructions in WWII to not bother trying to bring their remains home.